D.G. Kaye on growing self-esteem

Posted on October 19, 2017 by Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life.

Non-fiction author D.G. Kaye also known to us as Debby Gies, is the guest today of Madelyn Griffith-Haynie. The subject is self-esteem, which is a precious commodity. Not the showy, narcissistic ‘I am the greatest’ kind of esteem but one that allows you to live life to the full, happy with who you are and able to share that with others. It is a fragile state that if not carefully nurtured in a child can turn into a life long fear of being who you really are. Debby does not sugar coat the actions you need to take when in a relationship that is toxic…. head over and heed wise words. #recommended

ADD . . . and-so-much-more

Working through the past
to live powerfully in the present
Guest Blogger: © Debby Gies (author D.G. Kaye)
©Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
Returning the favor
©Michel Scott | Found HERE
In mid-August I was honored by a request to write an article for blogger Debby Gies, (author D.G. Kaye), so that she could spend her time getting her latest book ready for publication.
I chose to focus on the brain-based benefits to those of us who take frequent vacations between the pages of a book.
(CLICK HERE to read the entire article on her site)
I had a wonderful time putting something together for the writing/reading followers of Debby’s blog. However, I made her promise that she would write something suitable for the readers of ADDandSoMuchMORE.com — as soon as she had a bit of that illusive free-time that seems to be in short supply for…

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27 thoughts on “D.G. Kaye on growing self-esteem”

paulandruss on October 19, 2017 at 2:13 pm said:

Loved this post from Debbie and then Madelyn’s input on top. Can I suggest something? Debby, Madelyn and Sally get together (now that would be a Holy Trinity) to write a handbook ‘how to get though life with minimum damage. 3 great minds bent on practical advice. Now that would be THE GOOD BOOK that really lived up to its name!

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- Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. on October 19, 2017 at 4:41 pm said:
  
  Thanks Paul…Something definitely to think about down the line.. But Debby and I have talked about something that would provide more immediate answers.. so we shall see what the New Year brings.. and the more the merrier .. hugs xxx
  
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- Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC on October 19, 2017 at 8:56 pm said:
  
  That sounds like a fun project, Paul (and a compelling idea for a title). I have often thought an anthology along similar lines would be interesting, similar to the short-story anthologies I have read.
  
  I contributed a few ideas to an ADD “Tips” anthology a few years back, but found the word limit unsatisfying (both as a writer and as a reader). To my mind, something a bit more fully developed would be more helpful and encouraging than a book full of quick-hit “advice” from supposed “experts.” It would speak to me, in any case.
  xx,
  mgh
  
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- dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:35 am said:
  
  First of all, thanks so much for always being so supportive Paul. But 2nd of all , what a fab idea! And as I see here, Sal has already mentioned to you that ideas have been brought up about such a project, which I will definitely be thinking about in the new year!!! 🙂 x
  
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Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC on October 19, 2017 at 9:02 pm said:

I started my blogging day with some comments from a few “new” folks and wondered about it as I worked my way down the comments drop-down – then I got to your reblog notification. NOW I know that they no doubt jumped over from your reblog and recommendation. Your opinion carries weight, and I thank you VERY much – especially for introducing it so beautifully.
xx,
mgh

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- Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. on October 19, 2017 at 10:29 pm said:
  
  People know good stuff when they see it Madelyn and they get that on your blog. Add in D.G. and a winning combination..hugs..xxxx
  
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  - Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC on October 19, 2017 at 11:01 pm said:
    
    I am glowing with pleasure after reading your comment, Sally. Thank you.
    
    I agree with you about Deb as well. No accident that this post seems to be “winning” in terms of views, likes and comments. Thanks again for spreading the word to your community of readers.
    xx,
    mgh
    
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  - dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:38 am said:
    
    Sal, you’re so good for the soul! Thank you my friend for not only sharing my post at Madelyn’s, but for giving me double dips on your blog today with this share and my archive post, I’m always very appreciated to be featured here. ❤ xxx
    
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  - Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. on October 20, 2017 at 10:29 am said:
    
    Home from home Debby.. ♥♥
    
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  - dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:32 pm said:
    
    ❤ ❤
    
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- dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:36 am said:
  
  Hi M. That’s the beauty of sharing my friend. And you can expect more next Tuesday when I reblog it too, lol. ❤ And Sal sure did a beautiful intro. ❤ xx
  
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  - Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC on October 20, 2017 at 2:38 am said:
    
    She has a particular talent for those intros, doesn’t she? Thanks for the heads up about Tuesday – I’m sure you’re right. You are one popular girl! I’ll keep a close eye out.
    xx,
    mgh
    
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  - dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 3:19 am said:
    
    Lol, ya, they’re breaking down my doors! Lolol. I hope when I share it will invite more eyes, I’ve been thrilled to see so many of our friends here at your place. And no surprise we have quite a few in common. ❤
    
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  - Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC on October 20, 2017 at 3:37 am said:
    
    Like attracts like, so they say.
    xx,
    mgh
    
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  - dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:24 pm said:
    
    🙂 🙂 xx
    
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  - Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. on October 20, 2017 at 10:30 am said:
    
    Worth repeating several times to get the message spread as far as possible. ♥♥
    
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  - dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:33 pm said:
    
    So true Sal. ❤
    
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Tina Frisco on October 20, 2017 at 3:14 am said:

Fabulous reblog, Sally. Debby exemplifies growing self-esteem in all of her books. It was wonderful to read this again. And it was perfect for Madelyn’s blog. She and Deb have so much in common. They both write with candor and from the heart. Hugs to all of you ♥♥♥

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- Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. on October 20, 2017 at 10:26 am said:
  
  I agree Tina.. a terrific post and a great match. ♥♥
  
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- dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:45 pm said:
  
  Wow, thanks for that beautiful compliment T. ❤ ❤
  
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  - Tina Frisco on October 20, 2017 at 9:16 pm said:
    
    ❤❤
    
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  - dgkaye on October 21, 2017 at 12:09 am said:
    
    ❤ ❤
    
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Jennie on October 20, 2017 at 1:50 pm said:

Wisdom and insight from two who really know. Thank you, Debby and Madelyn. And, thank you, Sally.

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- dgkaye on October 20, 2017 at 2:45 pm said:
  
  Thank you so much Jennie. 🙂 x
  
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  - Jennie on October 20, 2017 at 2:51 pm said:
    
    You are most welcome, Debby. 🙂
    
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- Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. on October 20, 2017 at 3:39 pm said:
  
  I think so too Jennie..hugs xx
  
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  - Jennie on October 20, 2017 at 6:50 pm said:
    
    🙂
    
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