Smorgasbord Posts from Your Achives – Inspirational Couples by Karen Ingalls

Welcome to a new series of archive posts from inspirational author Karen Ingalls. Life and relationships can be very challenging and having role models is so important. In this post Karen shares two couples who have provided inspiration.


There are two couples who are truly inspirational couples to me. They are my neighbors, Harry and Annabelle, and long-time friends, Stan and Jayne. They are the perfect example of a complete marriage, which means that each person respects, honors, and loves the other.

Harry and Annabelle have encouraged and supported me from the very beginning of my new life as a cancer survivor. They sent cards, made telephone calls, and daily prayed for me. They attended my recent book launch, purchased a copy of Outshine: An Ovarian Cancer Memoir, and after reading the book they said, “Karen, you are an inspiration.”

In the ten years I have known them, they have been an inspiration to me by the way they live and treat each other. For Harry and Annabelle who are 92 years young, God is the center of their lives; their love is unconditional; and they follow the Golden Rule. After 72 years of marriage they have heard and seen it all, yet they are not hardened, scornful, or unforgiving. Life has not always been easy for them yet they have been caregivers to each other, family and friends. Their sense of humor, positive outlook, and having looked at life through youthful eyes has helped them to be independent and productive.

Stan and Jayne amaze and inspire me with their complete love and devotion to one another. Their lives are also God-centered. Even during the difficult times of job losses, deaths of parents, and frequent moves they have stood together and faced each challenge with faith and love. I have known them for thirty years and I have not heard them complain nor feel sorry for themselves.

When I was first diagnosed with cancer they immediately were by our side. Their prayers, visits, and phone calls were filled with love and encouragement. Stan has a beautiful gift of creative design and word expressions. He remembers birthdays and anniversaries and sends out cards, some of which he has designed. Jane is always smiling and has a contagious and recognizable laugh. She is a good listener, loves to give hugs, and is there to give support wherever needed.

These two couples are inspirational because they are God-centered, loving, generous, kind, and giving. Is there a person or couple in your life who has influenced you in a positive way? Do you believe you are an inspirational person to others?

We all need positive role models especially in our growing-up years. In closing, this quote sums up the message of this blog: A loving heart is the truest wisdom.” (Charles Dickens)

©Karen Ingalls 2017

My thanks to Karen for sharing this inspirational post and if you have someone who has inspired you then please share in the comments.

About Karen Ingalls

I might be a retired RN, but I am an active and enthusiastic writer of non-fiction and fiction. It took a few years before I was willing to show that deeper part of myself. I love to get lost in the world of my novels and let the creative juices flow. I have written several articles for medical and nursing journals. I enjoy researching and discovering new information.

I enjoy writing for my two blogs ( and The first one is about health/wellness, relationships, spirituality, and cancer. My second blog is for authors and avid readers who wish to be interviewed, do a guest blog, and be promoted. I have “met” so many interesting and enchanting people, who have done guest posts for me; or those around the world who follow my blogs and leave comments.

I was thrilled and honored to be recognized as a runner-up at the Midwest Book Awards and then receiving first place in the category of “women’s health” at the National Indie Excellence Awards. The greatest reward is when a reader shares how my book(s) inspired them, taught them something, or brought a deeper awareness about life.

One of the many excellent reviews for Outshine: An Ovarian Cancer Memoir on Goodreads

Sep 08, 2017 A.M. Manay rated it Five Stars.

This memoir focused on the author’s battle with cancer really touched me. I appreciated her honesty about the fear that accompanies a life-threatening health problem. Her work to balance both western medicine and alternative therapies was also a wonderful thing for her to share. Her words about the spiritual component of her battle were most encouraging. It was nice to read about someone who is strong in her faith as well as open-minded about eastern spiritual practices. I’ve had my own health scares, and I identified a lot with her story. The writing was also of excellent quality. Overall, I was quite impressed.

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My first novel, Novy’s Son is about one man’s search for his father’s love and acceptance. It is based on my father and those men I counseled when I was a nurse therapist.

Davida is my second novel which is a fictionalized biography about the love affair between Augustus Saint-Gaudens and his model. He was the premier sculptor from 1880 through the early 1900’s. These two people just happen to be my great-grandparents.

A recent review for Davida.

Lots of care to detail  on November 7, 2017

Davida is the story of a young girl coming to America from Sweden in the late 1800’s. She and her mother worked at an inn until Davida is offered the chance to model for the artist Augustus Saint-Gaudens. Augustus and Davida fall in love and embark on a long relationship. They have an illegitimate son.

The story is told in a touching and romantic manner, albeit tragic. I really like history and appreciate the amount of work that goes into research and understanding the customs and nuances of another time period. This is well-done in this novel with lots of care to detail.

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Thank you for dropping in today and Karen will be with us at the same time for the next three weeks.


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  3. Dear Karen,
    Jayne & I are touched and sincerely grateful, honored and humbled to receive your beautiful heartfelt sentiments as an inspirational couple.
    Indeed, the highest honor that exists, is the one given by an individual we admire and discern to be truly inspirational.
    Thank you Karen, ….and we’ve never seen your cape….
    Stan & Jayne

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