Welcome to the next post in the series Letters from America 1985 -1987. In retrospect I have managed to find some of our photographs taken during the two years that I would have shared with my parents later. They came out for a month in the November of 1985 which was wonderful.
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First swims, Alabama-Coushatta Reservation and adventures with the ice-maker
Hi M & D.
Just received your letter, the first one to the new apartment, and it only took six days which is great. Sorry to hear about Norah and her collapse, as you say, thank goodness she wasn’t driving at the time. Perhaps she will give up the car now as it could have been very dangerous for others too.
My weight has dropped enough for me to venture forth into the pool. Although only the second week in March the water was about 24 degrees and lovely. We went in on Sunday and I have just had another swim. I plan on making it my daily routine for an hour and am really looking forward to it. The air temperature is very hot (for those of us from rainy England) and I have to remember to put sun screen on my back when swimming for an hour so that I don’t burn. But I am going brown which is wonderful. One of our new friends said that most people don’t swim until the evening because of the sun, something about mad dogs and Englishwomen go out in the midday sun!!
David is in San Francisco this week. He has some initial meetings set up and if anything comes of them, I will go next time. Last week we had another trip to Dallas and stayed at the Hilton (it was only two dollars more than the Holiday Inn so hang the expense!). We had dinner with a Scot and his wife who work for another part of the company, and it was very enjoyable. I must say that after the hire car, David’s new one is a joy to drive and I could seriously get used to automatic and cruise control. Especially with miles of highway ahead of you.
On Saturday we had a great treat. We visited the Alabama – Coshatta Reservation. They are woods indians rather than plain’s indians so no horses. It was a lot of fun. You pay six dollars and there are three tours, two by bus (open and flung together) and one my miniature steam train all through the reservation. On your ticket you also get a tour of their craft village and a war dance exhibition which was very exciting. We had lunch in the cafe, burger and buffalo chips! I always thought that referred to buffalo dung… but these were particularly delicious. I treated myself to a pair of silver and turquoise earrings which were very inexpensive.
We chatted to some of the guides and they were so welcoming. It is admirable that they are keeping their culture alive and are making a living from tourists. We found out that there are two tribes who are descended from the Creek Indians and originated in Alabama before being forced off their land in the 1830s. They migrated into Texas when it was Spanish and in after the war with Mexico, we found out that Sam Houston protected them. They traded with the white settlers to the area and they have lived on the reservation since then.
David arrives home Thursday and I am picking him up at the airport. By the time you arrive in November I will be able to find my way there blindfolded. We have at least four different routes dependent on time of day and traffic, and we can make it in twenty minutes.
I am glad your weather is improving too, won’t be long now before you are out on the roof garden with your tubs. I could do with some of those on our balcony, but not knowing if we might move in the next few months to Washington, I have contented myself with buying some indoor plants. At the end of our balcony is the utility area where the washer and dryer live. Washday is a pleasure, just pop it in and when dry it’s almost unnecessary to iron it.
I must admit after my initial wariness about the dishwasher (I was used to having ‘hands that do dishes can feel soft as your face with mild green fairy liquid!), I am now a fan. I use all the plates and cutlery, load them up and hey presto! They are certainly a labour saving nation, but who am I to complain if I can go and sit by the pool rather than wash dishes by hand. All kitchens in the apartments are equipped with an enormous fridge/freezer with automatic ice maker. It takes a while to get used to the bang as it releases the ice, and the first few days we didn’t know how to switch it off. Ice cubes coming out of our ears.
Anyway that’s it for this week. All our love as always… look after yourselves. Sally and David.
©sallycronin 2018
Thank you very much for dropping in and I hope you continue to enjoy our adventure in Texas and trips we made around America during our time there.
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I liked this one. I’m going into writing mode and will not resurface for a while, but rest assured that I’ll be thinking of you, Ms. Spicy. (It’s so easy to flirt from 3,000 miles away. Please forgive me … and … as usual … don’t tell your husband. I’m still afraid he’ll beat me up.)
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Thanks Andrew and enjoy the writing retreat.. and yes distance adds a little frissance!! And don’t worry he would probably pay you $5 to take me off his hands.. You do know that my profile pic is photoshopped don’t you!!! hugs
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P.S.. Ellis is in the Cafe Update next Monday.. don’t worry if you are offline.
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Ha ha ha. I liked the view of someone not used to the American labor-saving devices. Lovely post, Sally.
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Thank you John.. It was heaven… hugs xx
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Lol Sal, I love your letters and your amazement at all things American from freezers and ice to Buffalo chips! Nice tan! 🙂 ❤
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Thanks Debby.. I was like a child in a sweet shop.. and don’t get me started on the discount fashion malls….. we arrived with two suitcases and returned with a full container of furniture, a car and 10 suitcases of clothes!!!! ♥
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Lolllllllllll. You remind me of our British friends who meet us to go on the same cruises we’ve been on. They go crazy with shopping. They arrive in Florida 3 days before the cruise and shop til they drop in all the outlets. The come with 2 empty suitcases and usually have to purchase another one before departing back to the UK LOL 🙂 ❤
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You can’t take it with you!!! ♥
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You got that right! ❤
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I am really enjoying your letters, Sally. Your last paragraph about the dish washer really made me laugh. It reminded me of this poem I wrote: https://robbiesinspiration.wordpress.com/2017/06/15/my-man-babies-a-poem/
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Thanks Robbie and your poem is reflective of many a mother’s thoughts.. xxx
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Good post, Saally. Coming from the opposite direction, my new mother-in-law thought I was very spoiled when a I acquired an under the counter secondhand fridge for my kitchen when she only had a meat safe and larder. Changed days 😉
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Thank you Lynn.. My mother came out with my father later that year and went home with a shopping list.. poor man.. xx
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Your parents must have loved getting your newsy letter. It is apparent that you have always been one to keep in touch. Anice habit to have. Enjoyed this letter a lot.
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Thank you Darlene..the days before Internet and very expensive transatlantic phone calls.. something like 12 dollars for a couple of minutes.. My handwriting is now dreadful after years of typing.. they would not have understood a word if I wrote them today! xx
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A funny story for you. In those same days, I wrote faithfully once a month to my in-laws in York. Then when we got our first computer in the early 90s, I typed the monthly letters. When visiting them in 1995, my mother-in-law said she was so pleased I was typing the letters because now she could read them. Oh dear.
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LOL.. I do wonder if my father had to read mine to my mother… glad I am not the only one.. hugs..
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Living the life Sally. A window on another world in every way. Do you still have the earrings?
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I lost one unfortunately but I still have the other as a reminder… xx
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You must have thought you’d died and gone to heaven with all those lovely domestic appliances – and sunshine! Lovely tan.
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I did Mary and I felt so well…. I was careful but I tan very easily.. probably spending most of my childhood in sunny climes. xx
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Lovely tan and you sound just like me on my first visit everything is labour saving and bigger :)xxx
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I know.. amazing… xxx
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What adventures you had! I loved the part about the sunscreen. We never even have to give it a thought. It is second nature to us Texans. 🙂
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I know.. it was a lesson I also remembered when swimming everyday at 900 metres in Spain. You can burn very quickly.. xxx
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Sally these letters are real time capsules. I am so enjoying them. Px
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Thanks Paul… seeing the photos is sobering. 80s hair. Still loving reliving the memories… XXX
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It is an absolutely brilliant photo of you. Pxxx
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Thank you XXXX
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I enjoy hearing about your adventures, Sally. So funny to get your perspective on the US. Ice cubes coming out the ears made me laugh, though I’ll admit that I’ve never had a fridge with an ice-maker. Sound like something I would do. Ha ha. 😀
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Thanks Diana.. we never put ice in drinks in the UK at home then. Perhaps at the pub.. It was a revelation. Especially when we learned to make Margaritas… xxxx
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Ha! I suppose in Texas the ice was welcome, especially in your margaritas!
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Check out your tan! Thoroughly enjoying your adventures and it brings me a smile to share your happiness. 🙂
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Thank you Annette.. so pleased you are enjoying.. ♥
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What a treat to read this letter, Sally. The little things, like the ice maker noise and cruise control, and comparing the size of a refrigerator to what you had back in England, is so much fun. Keep the letters coming!!
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Thank you Jennie…I am enjoying laughing at my unworldliness….xxx
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Ha ha!
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