When I was given the folder of my letters to my parents when my father died in 1996, I was amazed that he had kept them for ten years. But so pleased that he did. We tend to remember the major events, and we had plenty of amazing experiences in those two years of living in the United States, but it is easy to forget the everyday…
By the pool Monday 10th March 1986
Dear M & D
It is a cloudy day but 65 degrees so I decided to write you letter by the pool instead of in the apartment. Sorry to hear you have had the flu Mollie, and hope it is much better by the time you read this.
We set off from Atlanta at 11 a.m last Monday and were intending to stop at Pensacola in Florida that night and then again in Mississippi on Tuesday night. However, you know what it is like!!! We felt quite fresh, and decided to push on and stop when we got tired, and at 3.30a.m we arrived back in Houston! 780 miles which is not bad. We took it in turns driving, 2 hours on and 2 hours off and stopped each time for a break and either a coffee or something to eat and it worked well.
We have spent the rest of the week recovering and getting sorted after nearly ten days away, and thankfully David has not had to travel.
Thanks Pixabay.com
This weekend was spent at our first BBQ cookout. We went up to Debbie on Friday night to Conroe where 80 teams were competing with their sides of beef and secret recipes.The smell was amazing and all thoughts of being good flew out the window. Impossible to try everyone’s BBQ but we learnt from our friends that the pits with the longest queues where well known for the quality of their meat.. and some of those sauces were hot, hot….
We met some really great people including some real cowboys who were fascinated by our accents. Eventually I was forced to give a rendition of Molly Malone to the owners of one of the BBQ stands, although I think they lost a few people out of their queue!
Thanks Pixabay.com
That evening.. with very full stomachs, we sat around a campfire and drank wine, comparing notes and enjoying the music.. In good country style, guitars were dug out of the campers and there were some great musicians and we enjoyed a good singalong. I have discovered I like country music since we arrived here and hearing it in an authentic setting does make a difference.
Yesterday we went back at midday and sat in the sun, but it was very windy with dust blowing around all the time and I spent most of the day sneezing. When we got back to Houston late afternoon, Debbie and I had our first tennis match of the season and I was in bed by 9.00pm. When she finishes work today we are off to play again… the exercise is working..
I am so happy with my new car, it is great and it is so good to be able to go out shopping during the day rather than wait for David to come home from work. I don’t want to leave it behind if we move back to the UK at the end of the year and we are looking into how I can import it.
Walter sends his love and he has done something very constructive. He has given up his weekends to work in the apartment office which means he lives rent free. We are delighted for him and he seems to be very settled with his latest girlfriend.
Hopefully in the next week or two we will hear from the attorney about changing my status so that I can work too. Although he is not hopeful.. Until David has a firm job offer they are unlikely to change by Visa, but always we know things will work out for the best.
Time to get back inside and prepare chilli for some of the guys who are coming over to catch up on our trip and the BBQ weekend.
Love from us both…. S & D
©Sally Cronin
The images are from Pixabay as mine are packed away in the attic…..
You can catch up with the other letters from America: https://smorgasbordinvitation.wordpress.com/letters-from-america-1985-1987/
Conroe is the place to go for BBQ. Did you guys sleep in the car or have a tent?
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We stayed at my friend’s ranch which was fun too.. I have some pictures for one of my visits on a horse!! sorry about the typos in the first paragraph.. senior moments and predictive text…have fixed xxx
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I am the typo king so never noticed. 😀
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bless you…hugsxx
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You might want to fix that typo in the second sentence.
–When I was given the folder of my letters to my parents when my father died in 1996, I was amazed that he had kept them for ten years. But so pleased that he die.–
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I swear that wasn’t there in the first place but clearly the gremlins were in my head yesterday..thanks and a couple of others as well…
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How nice to have the lettters and hope the BBQ was tasty
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It was and thanks for catching the typos..it was one of those days yesterday and clearly not in my right mind..
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Well
With autocorrect I think many will slip by us! And I do not always mention typos (and I noticed people who read my blog seem to not bring them up – like one time I went back into a post that had a good number of views/ comments and I saw five typos – no one said a word.
Lol
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You would have enjoyed meeting my dad who was a real cowboy! Sounds like you enjoyed the barbecue. xo
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Delicious Darlene.. wow those slow cooked briskets and ribs …. and the sauces.. wow.. now you have make me hungry again… xx
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Wow! I love these big grills, but here they are offered only since two years. Thank you for the great story. Best wishes, Michael
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Thanks Michael.. hugsx
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With great thanks to you too, Sally! Always a great pleasure! Have a nice day! Michael
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The BBQ cookout sounds fantastic, Sally. I could almost smell it 🙂
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Delicious Mary… the meat was so tender… xxx
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Sal I wish I was at some of those BBQ parties with you and the cowboys! Lol ❤
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Me too Debby would have had a riot..you already have the hat…♥
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Oh ya. I have a few of them!!! ❤
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Your letter was wonderful, Sally. More importantly, your introduction that the ‘everyday’ is so important struck a chord with me. It’s the little things that are remembered. Sometimes people don’t write about them, even though they might be their most poignant memories. I read some years ago about the memories that are treasured and what you should leave behind. It was the everyday. The story pointed to someone who had the simple housedress of her grandmother. I would dearly love (understatement) my grandmother Nan’s housedress. I treasure the everyday.
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Thank you Jennie. It comes in under random acts of kindness, even the smallest gesture, that shows us that there is wonderful things in the world, even when the press would have us believe otherwise. I do have great faith in people. ♥
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Amen!
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I’m still miffed that you didn’t look me up when you were here. And what happened to the car?
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If I had known where you were roaming back in those days Andrew, I would have.. and I brought the car back to the UK with me in a shipping container with a bunch of furniture and all our belongings.. not bad considering we arrived in Houston with only two suitcases each..I hope the writing sabbatical is going well..
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On the final pass of editing (#156,352 or so it seems). And that’s the way it is in America. You start out with two suitcases and end up needing a shipping container.
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Good to hear and look forward to showcasing.. at the other end of acquisition now… decluttering!
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