Delighted to welcome poet and author Ritu Bhathal to the series with the first of her posts I have selected. Ritu has an eclectic range of subjects on her blog, and I am going to share a poem that I think will resonate with anyone with teenage children.
Of Teen and Tweenage Angst 2018 by Ritu Bhathal
Gone are the days when a parent
Simply battled with the Teens
These days we have a new breed
Calling themselves the Tweens!
Now with the Teens, it’s expected
Hormones raging through
But the trouble with these Tweens
Dear God, I wish I knew
It’s like ten is the new thirteen
And thirteen’s just as bad
Parenting’s never easy
But I don’t like this Tweenage fad!
I was prepared for seven years
Of total Teenage hell
But with these Tweens, they’ve added on
Another three years as well!
They stomp around in stereo
And fight at the drop of a hat
You cannot have a conversation
It’s just all rude backchat!
And if, perchance, things happen
To not go quite their way
You’ll get the silent treatment
Though they have so much to say
It flows in images and messages
On Social Media sites
Selfies, emojis LOL’s
To put the world to rights
Right now I live in a timebomb
Of tween and teenage tricks
What on earth will happen when I
Add menopause to the mix?
©Ritu Bhathal 2018
About Ritu Bhathal
Ritu Bhathal was born in Birmingham in the mid-1970’s to migrant parents, hailing from Kenya but with Indian origin. This colourful background has been a constant source of inspiration to her.
From childhood, she always enjoyed reading. This love of books is mostly credited to her mother. The joy of reading spurred her on to become creative in her own writing, from fiction to poetry. Winning little writing competitions at school and locally gave her the encouragement to continue writing.
As a wife, mother, daughter, sister, and teacher, she has drawn on inspiration from many avenues to create the poems that she writes.
A qualified teacher, having studied at Kingston University, she now deals with classes of children as a sideline to her writing!
Ritu also writes a blog, a mixture of life and creativity, thoughts and opinions, which was recently awarded The Best Overall Blog Award at the Annual Bloggers Bash Awards in 2017.
Ritu is happily married and living in Kent, with her Hubby Dearest, and two children, not forgetting the furbaby Sonu Singh. She is currently working on some short stories, and a novel, to be published in the near future.
Delve into a book of verse exploring different topics and different genres, all with a RITUal twist.
A collection of poetry drawing on the experiences of the writer, ranging from matters of the heart, love for the family, situations in life and some verses written with a humorous twist.
One of the reviews for the collection
‘Poetic Rituals’ by Ritu Bhathal is an amalgamation of free verse, haiku and tanka. First section is packed with the emotions of a new mother; pride and affection flow freely through her verse but a realistic touch of worry, of angst and frustration add more charm to her poems. Every mother would ‘like to flee’ at some point when she feels that her kids are ‘devils in disguise!’ ‘Twelve Days Of Holidays’ is cute rendition of how mothers handle their little monsters during the holidays.
Ritu’s poetry matures as the book proceeds into the third segment, dwelling on love, life and its realities… trying to answer some pertinent questions like… “Head or heart, to whom do I bow?” Section four would bring a smile on your lips as you read
‘Brow-terpillars’ and ‘Oh My Bag,’ reminding you of similar groans that the poet shares about packing and trying to fit in all those things in one bag and later realize we didn’t even use. It is amazing how she could write a poem about chores like ironing, dieting, connecting a printer to Mac!
Read all the reviews and buy the collection: https://www.amazon.com/Poetic-RITUals-Ritu-Bhathal/dp/1533088020
and other reviews on Amazon UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Poetic-RITUals-Ritu-Bhathal-ebook/dp/B01H46DN5Q
Read more reviews and follow Ritu on Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30843440-poetic-rituals
Connect to Ritu
Blog: https://butismileanyway.wordpress.com/
Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/butismileanyway
Twitter: https://twitter.com/PhantomGiggler
Bloglovin: https://www.bloglovin.com/blogs/but-i-smile-anyway-13707551
Tumblr: https://www.tumblr.com/blog/ritusmiles
My thanks to Ritu for permitting me to dive into her archives to share with you. I hope you will head over and check them out for yourselves. Thanks Sally
Brilliant – the abrupt end of childhood takes many forms – such as waking up one morning and discarding all their nice clothes and wearing only black with an expression to match.
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hahaha.. Goth in every generation…xx
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My daughter seems to mention goth rather a lot… Will the black phase start soon??
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Probably only if you tell her not to …lol.. ♥
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I’ll try to avoid that… 😉
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Hopefully not, ours just wanted to wear black but weren’t goths. However, one day we bumped into Cyberspouses’s colleague out with his only son ( same age as our youngest ) This young teenager was dressed in a long black coat, with dyed black hair and a scowl. Cyberspouse said ‘Well that was a waste of money sending him to private school!’
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😂
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Reblogged this on Campbells World.
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Thanks for sharing Patty.. ♥
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Thank you for sharing 🥰
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Am aware of Ritu’s brilliant poetic talent, and so often very amusing. Oh teens and now tweens, what headaches they can create. Hugs xx
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I am sure not to be missed…..♥
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Thank you Joy 🥰
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Thank you so much for sharing this Sally!
Literally just finished school this afternoon so hadn’t looked at the blog properly! 🥰
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Happy holidays Ritu… I am sure it will take a few days to wind down.. ♥
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I’ll be in tomorrow to move furniture… And next week I’ll be on a reorganisation spree. That’s the joy of getting a new classroom… Making it your own!
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I am sure it makes a difference to you and to the student to feel at home.. xxx
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Definitely! And I’ll have everything just as i want it!
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Dont forget, she is always treating furbaby Sonu Singh with diets. Lol And she is wondering why Sonu tries to eat her papers. 😉 I think Sonu is awaiting the first print of her new book, to get a famous dish. Lol Michael
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Muses or mousers are like that Michael, demanding.. hugsx
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Ha ha! Sonu Singh will always be my precious!
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My daughter is going through this with her son- shared!
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haha… the joys….xx
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It’s a global phenomenon!!!
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A most entertaining poem, Sally. A super choice.
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Thanks Robbie… glad you enjoyed..hugsx
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Thanks Robbie 💜
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Lol, a story many parents can relate to Ritu. When menopause strikes, I wrote a book that can help you with that, lol. 🙂 ❤
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Ha ha!!! I think it’s already in my kindle… 😉
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LOL Ritu. 🙂
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and very helpful too.. ♥
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I certainly understand Ritu’s dilemma and with two teenage daughters a number of years ago, it was difficult, but they managed to live throught it and both have advanced college degrees and survived their teenage years.
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I think most of us come out the other side.. part of the ritual of growing up….♥♥
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Sally, so very true and yes, most of us do come out the other side well and whole. Karen 🙂
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There’s hope then! Thanks Karen!
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Ritu, yes and you may be very surprised at how quickly they change into young adults that you will be so proud of. I think every teenage goes through a learning curve about who they are and what they want to be, eventually. Karen 🙂
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Today I had my teen and tween in my new for September classroom. The idea was that they helped me get some shifting done, before I start the arduous task of sorting through the debris left from the previous occupants.
They helped, yes, a little, but spent the rest of the time winding each other up, and I admit I had to resort to a few threats of no pocket money, as they were so embarrassing!
But yes, the time will come, I am sure, when I won’t even believe that was what they were like… I hope!
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Take photos as evidence to use in the future!! xx
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Oh I did lol!
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Ritu, yes, I remember how it was and these siblings of mine often did the same things as your daughters, but now they are the very best of friends and love each other so very much. I think you will find that your girls too, will be the best of friends. Karen 🙂
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It’s a boy and a girl that I have… But I know things will change. My brother and I were the same and now, many years later, we are each others biggest supporters 🥰
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Ritu, it is very true for boy and girl siblings. I know, I have two brothers and two sisters, and yes, there were always arguments. The boys thought they could rule the house and us in it and now we are the very best of friends and support each other. Karen 🙂
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Ritu, I think having a boy and a girl is wonderful. They will support each other in high school because sons try to protect their sisters in a big way, especially when they are of dating age. Karen 🙂
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That is what I’m hoping a’s she starts secondary school in September at the same school as her big bro!
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Ritu, he will be protective of her as my brothers were of me and my sisters – I have no doubt. Karen 🙂
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😊 here’s hoping 😁
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Lol you have hit it on the Nail again Sis 💜💜💜
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He he! You know me, sis, I speak nothing but the truth!
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Yes indeed 💜
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