For the next twelve days I am going to share some of my memories of Christmas, some favourite food and drinks, plus some music you might enjoy. I have taken snippets from 2016 and 2018 to share with you.
To get the party started here are some choristers with particular appeal..
I tried to remember the first Christmas that I was aware of as a child. I must have got the general idea of the concept of presents quite young as at age seven when we moved to Malta I began the practice of putting a pillowcase on the end of my bed from around mid-October…. I think this ticked my mother off somewhat because she sat me down at the beginning of December and told me that Father Christmas did not exist and that from now on I would have my presents around the tree like my two sisters who were in their late teens….. My brother would only have been three years old at the time and so was not really interested one way or another.
It must have made quite an impression on me as I then related this story to my husband before our first Christmas when we were talking about how we would spend our first together. Since we had only known each other for six weeks when we married in mid-November it was not surprising that there were a few things that we had not had time to discuss, especially something as trivial as Father Christmas! However, imagine my delight when I woke early on Christmas morning to find a heavy weight across my legs (oy… Nothing like that this is a family show) I switched the light on to find a pillowcase packed to the rafters with carefully wrapped presents… Nothing too grand as we were pretty broke but I remember bursting into tears at the time at this act of love and kindness…
Every year since then for the last 40 Christmas mornings we have woken early and sneaked a stocking full of nonsense on to each other’s side of the bed and when we had Sam still, he had one too. There is a frenzy of unwrapping or ripping in the case of Sam, and much laughter and illicit consumption of chocolate oranges and cashew nuts. Sam would empty his sack out on the floor to get to the bottom where he could smell his favourite treat was hidden – a very fragrant pig’s ear… I always put a tatty duvet cover on for this occasion and it was necessary.
As to my favourite Christmas present of all time……that would probably be the year that my parents came up to London to stay with us and have Christmas dinner. My father loved big band music and at the time was still listening to a 1960s record player. We gave him a fairly flat package, and he unwrapped it to find four CDs of Glen Miller Big Band Music.. He tried so hard to look excited, but then looked at me and said ‘I don’t have anything to play these on’. David then handed over another large package to my mystified father, who tore of the wrapping to find a box containing a combined radio and CD player with detachable speakers. The look on his face is still very clear in my mind today. Priceless.
Just in case my father is listening in from somewhere over the rainbow.. here is Glenn Miller with In The Christmas Mood…..
The Twelve Days of Christmas.
Actually the 12 days do not begin today but from Christmas Day until the evening of the 5th January. These days are associated with religious calendars and rather than the fun approach in the song we sing, many are in tribute to someone who met a tragic end. The 12 Days have been celebrated in Europe since before the Middle Ages and were a time of celebration of various events around the birth of Jesus or to celebrate the life of a saint or martyr. Each day had its own significance.
Day 1 (25th December): Christmas Day celebrating the birth of Jesus and the setting of the nativity.
Christmas Carols
We assume that carols are of religious origin but in fact they are pagan songs that were sung to celebrate the four seasons. For thousands of years at the Winter Solstice for example people would dance around large stone circles and the word carol actually means to dance in praise and joy. Over time the practice of singing carols became synonymous with Christmas and was adopted by Christianity as a way of celebrating the birth of Jesus.
Over the years it has become a tradition for musicians to bring out their own compositions in honour of the season and over the coming days I will be sharing the carols and music that are sung all over the world by those who celebrate this particular festival.
And to start us off, where is a wonderful choir called Proclaim with Mary Did You Know……
Mince Pies
Traditionally mince pies were a bit of luxury and also a status symbol for those living in 17th century and very wealthy folk would show off at their Christmas gatherings by having their pies in all kinds of shapes and sizes and were more a reflection of their ability to employ a high end pastry cook more than anything. In the early days they would have contained minced meat of lamb, beef, chicken etc rather than those we eat today made with dried fruit and spices.
Traditionally it is said that if you have one a day from Christmas Day through to Twelfth night you will enjoy much happiness for the next 12 months… If ever there was an excuse to eat something sweet and fattening then this is the best yet….
Here are two amazing recipes from Carol Taylor our resident food expert.. one for mince pies and the other for delicious sausage rolls, another great addition to the Christmas menu: Mince Pies and Puddings
And something for you to drink before you head off into the cold. – The Eggnog
There is some debate about the origins of Eggnog but it probably goes back to what was called Posset in medieval Europe -it was a sweetened dairy based drink made with milk, cream, sugar and eggs which would have been beaten together to form a frothy drink with some cinnamon or nutmeg sprinkled on top. Over time of course some bright sparks began to add some alcohol to the mix depending on where they lived at the time… Today in various parts of the world you will find a version of Eggnog served with rum, brandy or whisky. It is very warming and sweet and if also combined with rum I understand it has an impact on short term memory…..
What is quite delicious is to make the concoction into an ice cream and that goes beautifully with mince pies or Christmas pudding.
Here is a link to some wonderful homemade eggnog: Tastes Better From Scratch
Thank you for dropping in today and I hope you will join me again tomorrow for the Second Day of Christmas. Sally.
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This was delightful, Sally! The pillowcase must have been really fun, and so thoughtful. Such a great tradition to continue.
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Thanks Jennie… I now get a big stocking.. with small but usually chocolate themed gifts…xxx
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The best parts of this post were the stories of David and your dad. Straight to the heart!
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Most Christmases have the same elements of presents, food and activities but it is the people who make the difference.. xx
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David really is a very considerate and kind person, Sally. What a lovely Christmas tradition you have.
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Thanks Robbie … it is lovely…xx
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A lovely nostalgic post, Sally and memories of the pillowcase and Glenn Miller those were special times. Thank you for including my Christmas Mince pies and sausage rolls Hugs xx
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Thanks Carol…and great to have somewhere to send in the next 12 days to get a food fix so thanks for taking care of the catering…hugsxx
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You are most welcome, Sally… Hugs xx
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Sally, it cracked me up for 40 years you and David stuffed the stockings to lay on each other’s sides!! How fun! I love your mince pies. I’ll get the recipes from Carol and make some. My husband loves the sausage rolls. 🙂
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Thanks Miriam.. I just hope Santa remembers to wear his mask this year when he fills my pillowcase! Enjoy the mince pies…hugsx
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I just read on the news that in Seattle, the Santa gets to stay in his cozy safety clear snow globe type of enclosure and the kids could see him. How clever!
I’m going to get some sausages today. Thanks, Sally. ❤
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So pleased that they get to see him at least.. Christmas is not the same without Santa..♥
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It was such a great idea. 💖
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A wonderful post, Sally, Loved the story of your first Christmas with David – he’s definitely a keeper 🙂 I’m going to check out the eggnog recipes. Looking forward to the next post.
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Thanks Mary, he is that….enjoy the eggnog, as my father used to say, it puts hair on your chest…lol..♥
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The story of that pillowcase from David in your first year of married life was as romantic as they come. Clearly a match made in heaven. Of course, Sam is the icing on the Christmas cake! I bought his shaggy dog story yesterday.
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Thanks so much Trish… he is a romantic and it was a lucky day bumping into him….I do hope you enjoy Sam’s book when you have time to read… hugsx
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Loved the Christmas music and the cocktails Sal. But I mostly loved the story of your loving husband surprising you with loving gifts on your first married Christmas. That was the sign. You knew he was a keeper. G and me have done the same ‘stocking’ full of fun stuff for years. Sistah! ❤ xx
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Nothing like being a kid again for a day or two… ♥♥
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Or twelve 🙂 xx
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What a wonderful Christmas post, Sally. I love that story of your father’s present – so beautiful. Toni x
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Thanks very much Toni and delighted you enjoyed… we are on our way..hugsx
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The story of David filling the case was exceptional. I also enjoyed the gift to your father. I’m sure he enjoyed In the Mood. This is my favorite Glenn Miller song as well. I played trombone in high school and this song was the trombonist’s time to shine.
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Another hidden talent John.. I grew up with Glenn Miller and the Big Band sound and when I had dreams of being a singer it was in the musicals and being lead for one of the bands.. xx
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That would be a wonderful dream, Sally. 😊
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Amazing.. x
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I had the pillowcase too, Sally. I remember every Christmas Day morning watching the Children’s Hospital show on the BBC. It wouldn’t have been Christmas without that programme. xxx
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Glad I was not the only one with a pillowcase Adele and I remember that programme too.. emotional…♥
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What a heart-warming post! Thanks for sharing Sally.
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Thank you Balroop… the countdown has started..hugs
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A wonderful post, Sally. I just loved what your husband did for you that first Christmas together. I had no idea that Christmas carols started out as something different, but I shouldn’t be surprised by that. I always learn so much from your posts—thank you!
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Thanks Amy and delighted you enjoyed.. trying to have as much fun as possible every day now.. hugs
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A fun and interesting post, Sally. Wow, David was a keeper, huh? How sweet. I’ve never had a mince pie. Now I’m compelled to have 12 of them (small ones). Merry Christmas.
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Lol Diana.. we had our first this week, warm with some coffee ice-cream.. Rather than stuff ourselves on the day we have a little Christmas every day for two weeks.. and then stuff ourselves lol..♥
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🙂 We don’t eat sugar so I’m not sure I can make it work – unless I go with the lamb version. But that is definitely not the same!
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But very tasty too…xx
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Loved reading your post today. Lots of great stories and info. I’m the oldest, so was able to enjoy the Santa thing for many years as my siblings grew up. Even after I knew. 😉 Hugs!
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What a great big sister to keep the secret…thanks Angie and have a good week…hugsx
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You too, Sally! xx
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Lovely memories, Sally. I too have wonderful memories of Christmases past. Wouldn’t it be great to re-live them? If only…x
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I agree Stevie.. a different time and I know it is an age thing but hard not to think ‘the good old days’.. still this is what we’ve got..xx
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Yep. A new variant of Coronavirus too, as an extra Christmas present…
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Probably with bells and whistles on..xxx
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What a terrific post, Sally. So interesting, and it made me laugh and feel sad at the same time. Great story re the pillowcase. I’m already looking forward to tomorrow’s post! Thanks!
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Thank you Elizabeth, delighted you enjoyed.. see you tomorrow..hugsx
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A wonderful posting, with a great story in it. Even your mom has stolen you the dream of Santa. 😉 Thank yoiu very much for this. Have to re-read this evening, because its in most parts so funny too. Enjoy your day! Michael
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Thanks Michael.. and glad you enjoyed…my mother was a character lol..hugsx
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Lol – It was indeed a great work of her. Can harm to know realities in younger days. xx
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