When I was given the folder of my handwritten letters to my parents when my father died in 1996, I was amazed that he had kept them for ten years. But so pleased that he did. We tend to remember the major events, and we had plenty of amazing experiences in those two years of living in the United States, but it is easy to forget the everyday…
March 18th 1986
Dear M & D.
Another St. Patrick’s Day over, we must have been the only two in Houston who didn’t attend the parade and celebrate it! I hear they even turned the river flowing through San Antonio that we walked along with you last year, green. One of our friends who comes from New York said that around 40 million Americans have Irish ancestry…for a small country Ireland has managed to do what greater nations have failed to… infiltrate every continent. There were a contingent of Irish at the Alamo on both sides as there are some Mexican families with Irish surnames..
We are still looking at options should be stay here after David’s contract finishes in January 1987. The sticking point is still for me to get a visa because we would both have to work if we are to afford a house etc. David is still in talks with agencies and we have had an idea of what I might do…With my previous job with Savills in Norfolk, I am looking at what is needed to take the Real Estate exams here. Once we have an idea of which state we would like to live in, I will check that out. I would be interested to go through the course anyway to keep my brain active.
On the subject of houses, we have come up with a plan to save quite a bit of money. We currently pay rental for all the furniture in the apartment. We get a certain allowance from the company but that does not cover all the rental or the furniture. So I have been to a rental company that also sells used furniture to complexes who offer fully-furnished. We pay 200 dollars a month for the furniture and I have paid 500 dollars for everything needed to replace it. With 9 months left this means a saving of 1300 dollars that we can put towards our new home.. here or back in the UK. David’s company has confirmed that it will bring back all our belongings including my car and any furniture so either way we will get good use from it. We sold our house in Tring with a lot of the furniture included because we didn’t want to pay a lot of storage whilst we were away. So it will be useful. It is all high quality stuff and a fraction of the cost of buying brand new.
Sonia rang me so we could talk about Emma’s visit in the summer and we are looking at June for three weeks. We just need to confirm our whereabouts but she doesn’t have to book the flight until 21 days before. It will be lovely to see her and cannot believe she is now 15… Debby and I have some trips up our sleeves including a girl’s weekend to San Padre Island which is fabulous. We will rent a beach house for three days.
David has a lot of travel planned for the next three weeks with trips to Las Vegas and San Diego in the first week in April. I will send him off with ten dollars to put in the poker slot machines for me… but don’t expect to see any winnings back! And I will fly out to meet him in San Diego for the weekend as we have some air miles to redeem and I can get a bonus ticket for 50 dollars extra. I do love that west coast and we are looking forward to exploring the southern end of the highway.
Walter has a bunch of friends coming in next week for a few days and I am cleaning his carpet for him with a rented machine from the store. I don’t mind as he is very good about making sure we are okay. We are having two of his friends stay with us, there is a big party planned for their first night around the pool with a BBQ and water volleyball and another on the Sunday at his place. I don’t think there will be much time for sleep.
I am now playing water volley ball for the boys team… I am tall and having played netball am quite useful by the net. We sometimes play other apartment complex and I am not sure if I am the mascot or the ace up their sleeves…They call me Sledgehammer.. I have been called worse… There is a song of the same name which seems to get played a lot.
We nearly got a dog…..yesterday I found a small puppy wandering around Kroger’s car park and I saw it nearly go under the wheels of a truck. I managed to coax it towards me and picked her up and brought her home. I rang the SPCA but they couldn’t take her last night so we decided to keep her or at least find her a good home. I took her for a walk around the outside of the apartment complex which has some grass, and as we passed the family section some children ran up and called her name. Seems like she had got out of the window left open for her in the truck when they were shopping at Kroger’s so it had a happy ending. But both of us were a bit disappointed.
Anyway.. time to head over and clean a carpet… and get the guest bedroom ready for the visitors. Write again next week..
love from us both S&D…
Thanks for dropping in today and I hope you have enjoyed the latest adventure. I am so glad we made the most of our two years in America..most of the partying stopped on our return to the UK and I was back to work full-time.
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Thanks for sharing Patty..xxxhugs
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Sledgehammer? Love it! Glad the pup was reunited with its family – and you have Sam waiting in the wings for you. xx
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Absolutely and as things turned out we returned to the UK in the following January and if we had taken it back then it would have had to be in quarantine for 6 months, so best result all round..xx
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I love reading your letters from America, Sally. You had such fun and had so much freedom. I think I’ve spent my whole life studying or working like a mad person and not given fun enough time.
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Thanks Robbie.. to be honest this was probably it for me.. it was back to work full time from the moment we got back to the UK and even working for myself tended to be 7 days a week and long hours. I am so glad I had that 2 years and at an age to take full advantage of it…hugs
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Working for yourself is definitely harder and longer hours, Sally. I also find it more rewarding.
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I agree Robbie..could never go back now..hugsx
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A happy ending for the puppy and its owner. Love the pool games!
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Thanks Jennie.. I never was so fit as that summer…xxx
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You’re welcome, Sally. 😀
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Now i really should look about my ancestors too.Maybe there are at least one from Ireland 😉 Because i am also loving some traditional products from Ireland. :-)) Michael
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They did get everywhere Michael… from about 800 onwards. You never know. Perhaps an ancestry DNA test will tell you. Mine was as expected because of my mother but there was also some viking … my father was tall and blonde and came from the north east of England so was to be expected.. I loved finding out…xx
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Researching on ancestors is very interesting, even i had found one of mine, who tried to kill a nobile, and one pointing to Transsylvania.;-) xx
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Oh my goodness… we all have a few like that Michael.. my great, great, great grandmother was a bit of a floozy….hugsx
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“Sledgehammer?” Lol Great nickname. And too bad you didn’t end up with a puppy. That would have provided good material for letters for months! 🙂 “Read” you in the new year, Sally. Wishing you a happy, healthy 2021. ❤
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Thanks Diana… wishing you a wonderful 2021 and Chaos review on Saturday…hugs ♥
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Thanks so much, Sledgehammer, for the review and the wonderful wishes for the new year. 🙂
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Lol..thanks Diana… ♥
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A super letter, Sally. I was so glad the family found their puppy. Seems they were a little neglectful but it is good the kids weren’t punished for that.
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Thanks John… children do lose focus so quickly when stuff is going on around them.. I am sure they were more careful from then on…hugsxx
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Love reading these letters. Had to laugh, when we were living there we also bought quite a bit of furniture we were renting at the time – still have some of it. Toni x
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There’s a lot happening in this letter Sal, lol. A dog, furniture, a move, a trip – which reminded me I was supposed to go to San Padre island once, but that is another whole story that needs telling over Margaritas! ❤
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Lol..we will be there all night at this rate…looking forward to both the margaritas and the telling..hugs ♥
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It’s gonna happen! ❤
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Here’s the HD version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJWJE0x7T4Q
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Very creative music video lol… thanks again Pete..x
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Let me try that again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1tTN-b5KHg
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Thanks Pete, you have no idea how many times that has been played at parties then and since when we have had a reunion.. always brings back great memories…xxx
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Did the real estate gig ever come to fruition? I don’t remember you ever writing about that. ihttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1tTN-b5KHg
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Thanks Pete…we found out a couple of months later that David was going to be promoted and go back to the UK so it never came to fruition..xx
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The water volleyball sounds like a lot of fun!
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It was, injuries aside… never been so fit..hugsx
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Glad to hear about the happy ending for the puppy. I know it was a bit sad that you didn’t get to keep him but I’m sure his family was grateful to get him back.
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I know… the children were very happy and that made it worthwhile..xx
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Thanks, Sally for another lovely letter. You are such a sociable person, and have so many strings to your bow. You have lived an exciting, adventurous life, and long may you continue.
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Thanks Elizabeth.. I think by enthusiasm has been curbed in recent years but if this year has shown me anything, it is that it is people who matter..hugsx
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Fascinating, Sally. I’m one of the many who claim Irish ancestry. The St. Patrick’s Day parade in NYC is quite the display of Irish presence in the US. 🙂 It’s so wonderful you kept copies of these letters. What a gift, for all of us. 💗
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Delighted you enjoyed Gwen and it is wonderful that such as small country.. just on the 5 million has made its mark around the world.. and not just for drinking and jokes..♥
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