Online Connections–Vetting on the Internet, Email and Social Media for Scammers and Trolls
Happy New Year and welcome back to a new year of Realms of Relationships. This is my corner at Smorgasbord Blog Magazine where Sally generously, gives me a featured spot here to share some nuggets of experience on various aspects of communication and relationships we encounter and form through life, where I talk about how I analyze and deal with same issues.
In this first post of the year, I thought I’d talk about how to deal with online scammers and emails, and discuss the importance of vetting people who want to connect with us on social media. Relationship and romantic and business connections, and how to search out the predators who lurk, will be part two on this topic for next month’s post.
Much of the world has at least somewhat of a digital existence since the advent of the internet became an appendage part of our lives these past few decades. Internet has become a whole new entity of itself and some who aren’t so internet savvy have to be extra diligent about who they allow into their circles – even more so – into their lives, digitally.
Now, we all know the many pros about living digitally, but do we know how to recognize the cons?
Social media, email and online dating apps can become threatening when allowing or inviting the wrong type of people into our circles. It’s essential we verify who we are speaking with on the other side of the internet before we allow them into our business.
On the pro side, social media and group apps are a good thing to keep us engaged, and a good means to interact with our peers and family. We can Zoom with friends, family, and for meetings, which of course has been a lifeline for many during this Coronavirus time.
We can instant message our friends and family through apps and texts. And we can make connections with like-minded people globally. And of course, there are numerous apps online for dating. But I caution to be diligent on those apps, and I’ll get to that next issue.
On the con side, in order to make healthy and honest connections in this era of trolls and scammers, we should all be doing our due diligence verifying the people we allow in our circles, making sure they are authentic. Before we make new bonds or meet up with people we’ve met on apps, it’s essential that we do a little background checking. Just as it’s equally important to verify the true source of an email before allowing ourselves to be scammed. And these topics are what I’m going to cover here today.
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Let’s begin with scam emails and how to detect them – what we need to look for when siphoning out a suspicious email. For example, I’ll share about some usual scammy emails I have personally received over time – scam emails from my bank, my government, Amazon, and Paypal and how I deal with them.
In the past few weeks alone, I’ve been inundated with emails from Amazon, informing me that my account is under investigation and has been closed due to suspicious activity, or requires my attention. The messages all ‘conveniently’ offer me a link so I can log in to my account and check what the ensuing problem is. DON’T! Do not click on that link! In fact, when you receive any kind of such emails NEVER EVER click on the supplied link in the email to sign into your account to investigate. NEVER! This is how the hackers get into your account, you are opening the door for them. Their intent with these emails are , they are hoping you do exactly that, open it!
I’m beyond recognizing these scams because they are so frequent. I just auto delete and don’t even bother going over to Amazon to check anything because I know the ruse. But for those of you who get startled and alarmed by such scary information and feel the need to verify, just GO directly to Amazon URL and log in to your account DIRECTLY FROM AMAZON. You are going to the source direct. If there is any problem with your account, Amazon will be only too happy to leave a notification on your account.
How to recognize scam mail –a huge tell of a scammy email is to look directly within the URL address from the sender. Any reputable company sending email will have no extra gobbledygook attached to the sender name. When you receive email from Amazon it will say something like -“Amazon dot com@support or something of its ilk, but it WILL NOT HAVE any other tails attached to the URL, such as random letters and numbers or names – like this: (taken from one of the numerous scam mails in my junk bin)
Mail sent by Assistant Amazon: We found a suspicious transaction on your payments profile Sun, December 20, 2020 [6894-593980-LBXUJ72G]
Customer Service <norpl-SLQOV8GOcWH2xf1HunY8cuEUX5@AlanLinares.onmicrosoft.com>
Sun 2020-12-20 1:25 PM
Here is the message in the body:
“Amazon Customer Protection.”
In this spot is the box they want me to click on
The payment for your latest order is failed. It appears that some of the billing details associated with your account might have expired or were otherwise changed. Please update your account information by Sun, December 20, 2020 to avoid limitation to access.
Also, look at the bottom of the email signature for telltale weird stuff and unprofessional signature. But your two main flashing warnings are a wonky URL from the sender, and a ‘click this link’ offering embedded in the email. No reputable company or institution will EVER leave an embedded log in link within the email. Check out the signature at the end of the above email:
Thank you for making this a priority.
Detail
Amazon.com, Inc
Headquarters : Seattle, Washington, United States
Order Date : Sun, December 20, 2020
That’s it! Anyone can write that signature!
As most of you reading this are familiar with email correspondence from Amazon, their sender address is from plain old Amazon.ca, or in many of your cases – Amazon.com, no names, letters or nonsense attached to sender name.
This same information applies to any email from any company or institution you do business with. Anywhere! Some companies offer a ‘spoofing’ or ‘phishing’ email address you can forward the scam email to so they can find and get rid of yet another scammer. I try to always forward a scam email to these company’s spoof or phishing address so they can be alerted.
Here’s what Amazon suggests:
To report a phishing or spoofed email or webpage:
1. Open a new email and attach the email you suspect is fake. For suspicious webpages, copy and paste the link into the email body.
Note: If you can’t send the email as an attachment, you can forward it.
2. Send the email to stop-spoofing@amazon.com.
Note: Sending the suspicious email as an attachment is the best way for us to track it.
Paypal also requests we send scam emails to them so they can eliminate yet another scammer. This is their advice:
If you believe you’ve received a phishing email, follow these steps right away: Forward the entire email to spoof@paypal.com. Do not alter the subject line or forward the message as an attachment.
Similarly, most institutions have a number or email you can forward scam emails too. I always do. If we all did, we could eliminate many of these thieves.
All the same information applies to scam banking or government emails. If the URL is wonky and there is a link offered in the email to log in to your account to rectify DO NOT! Always go directly to the website of your account and log in safely. Then do your fellow man a favor and report the scam to the appropriate authorities. In my case, when I received an email from our Canada Revenue Taxation branch urging me to login because they had found money for me, I Googled up the appropriate source to inform of the scam and wound up calling the RCMP (Royal Canadian Mounted Police) Fraud Squad to report it and they thanked me for doing so.
If the government has money for me, I’m already linked with auto deposit from them, and they know my address. Trust me, the government doesn’t take the time to send you a ‘hello’ email, ‘we’re sending you money.’ It’s auto deposited. And if they don’t deposit what’s expected, they’ll forward a letter by mail explaining so.
I use the exact same protocol for scam bank emails alerting me to ‘a problem with my account and because of it, my account has been frozen until rectified.’ These brazen types of scams even come by text on my mobile phone. I find them hilarious considering my bank doesn’t even have my cell phone number. Delete! Delete!
Now, let’s talk about social media apps. Facebook is notorious for its trolls and lonely hearts wanderers. Besides the disinformation and lies Facebook allows on its platform, it also has many trolls instigating and desecrating truth, but many others are stalking some and trying to form romantic relationships. How do I know this? Because I run a few groups on Facebook, including a political one. And I get numerous requests in my notifications from weirdos trying to hit on me! Firstly, I don’t EVER engage with trolls. When I receive rude or ignorant political comments, I click on the commenter’s name, which takes me to their page and I block them. If I deem them threatening, while on their page, I both, block, and report them. If they try any crap in any of my groups I run, I just report and then boot them.
Now, about making friendships and alliances online, that entails a deeper kind of investigating.
Let’s go back to Facebook as an example – I frequently get notifications that ‘so and so’ would like to be my friend. And this is where it’s important to do some checking. Here are some things to ask yourself before adding that ‘new’ friend:
- Do I know this person?
- How do I know this person?
- Do I want them privy to the posts I make on my personal page?
As an author on Facebook I have two pages, a personal page and an author page. I use my author page to share blog posts, writing posts, books, and memes relating to all the things I advocate for and relate to the books and stories I write. On my personal page I post memes about things I believe in, injustices, current events, humor, personal updates, and memes that speak a message, or even things about my sentiments on issues. That’s why it’s called my ‘personal’ page. If you aren’t in line with my posts, then you shouldn’t friend me. And that isn’t just for trolls who will never be invited, but for all friend requests. This is why 99% of my personal posts are set to be viewed by ‘friends’ only. I’m not looking to make waves with others who don’t approve or make judgments, and if I don’t feel you may be able to handle the things I post, I decline invitations.
So how do I vet these requests? I never just accept them, unless I know them. I visit the page of the person who requested the friendship and take a look at what types of things they like to post. I also read their ‘about’ blurb to see what I can learn about them or their opinions. If they are within the realms of my criteria, I’ll accept. If I feel otherwise, I decline. If I feel real curious about that person, I’ll continue on my investigation looking through various other social media accounts of that person.
There’s an old saying, an actual quote by Maya Angelou – “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.” We have much to learn from the posts and articles people share. It’s up to us to do our digital search to vet the people we allow into our circles for various reasons:
- We don’t need a public clashing of personality or beliefs and rude comments left on our posts
- We should know something about someone before we want to attach our names to their circles. Online reputation is of utmost importance to keep clean, especially if we conduct our business online.
- Allowing anyone to be our friend on Facebook, allows them to post and comment on our timeline. We don’t want to have to worry about unsavory comments left on our pages.
I hope this article has helped to enlighten you about just a few of the scams going on around cyberworld, and hope I’ve made it clear to NEVER log in to any account directly through an email. Do your diligence on social media apps so you don’t get caught in the web of trolls.
Next month, I’m going to get into Online Dating Apps and what to beware of, how to make a presentable profile and how to vet potential romantic interests.
If you’d like to share any of your own experience with a scam or a troll, let’s discuss!
©DGKaye 2021
My thanks to Debby for clarifying what can be a minefield when we are active online alongside the scammers.
Debby Gies is a Canadian nonfiction/memoir author who writes under the pen name of D.G. Kaye. She was born, raised, and resides in Toronto, Canada. Kaye writes about her life experiences, matters of the heart and women’s issues.
D.G. writes to inspire others. Her writing encompasses stories taken from events she encountered in her own life, and she shares the lessons taken from them. Her sunny outlook on life developed from learning to overcome challenges in her life, and finding the upside from those situations, while practicing gratitude for all the positives.
When Kaye isn’t writing intimate memoirs, she brings her natural sense of humor into her other works. She loves to laugh and self- medicate with a daily dose of humor.
I love to tell stories that have lessons in them, and hope to empower others by sharing my own experiences. I write raw and honest about my own experiences, hoping through my writing, that others can relate and find that there is always a choice to move from a negative space, and look for the positive.
Quotes:
“Live Laugh Love . . . And Don’t Forget to Breathe!”
“For every kindness, there should be kindness in return. Wouldn’t that just make the world right?”
When I’m not writing, I’m reading or quite possibly looking after some mundane thing in life. It’s also possible I may be on a secret getaway trip, as that is my passion—traveling.
Books by D.G. Kaye
One of the recent reviews for Words We Carry
Words We Carry’ is a gem. Kaye writes with a depth of wisdom and understanding and the whole book is relatable because of her insights. She paints a roadmap to show how early memories, others’ opinions and the events throughout our lives create the words about ourselves we carry around. She clearly demonstrates how these shape our thoughts, words and actions and how self-awareness can help us to change the words that do not serve us. ‘Thank you’ dear Kaye, for writing this book.
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Great post, Debby and Sally. While I think I’m pretty good at recognising and deleting scam emails, there must be many who still have trouble. Otherwise the scammers would be out of business. Like you, I check everyone who wants to be my friend on Facebook. It’s amazing some of the requests.
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Thanks Norah.. there are some tell tale signs and it is clear that some have not read the bio which states quite clearly …happily married, some seem to think they are on Tinder…xxx
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I think you’re right. I guess they’ll try anywhere. It’s particularly distressing when they target children with evil intent.
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Thank goodness the spam filters catch most of the stuff that comes in emails. All I have to do is empty the folders from time to time. Nary a false positive shows up. An annoying thing lately on the web is comments on WordPress posts that Akismet doesn’t delete out of hand, all of which are just a series of letters and numbers. More annoying are the phishing/scammer calls on my smartphone. They fall into three or four categories but all are spoofed–with the number showing up not being the one actually making the call. I’m waiting for the STIR/SHAKEN protocol to finally start making a dent it this.
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They certainly keep your busy as they duck and dive to circumnavigate the various firewalls put up by sites and phone providers. It is game to some of them to beat the system. Little whatnots….xx
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Great tips, Debby. It’s a great idea to be cautious. I’ve trained my parents to call me whenever they get “click now or else” emails and finally, I think, they are being cautious about them. They recently tried to throw away their government check because they thought it was a scam. Lol. I had to prove to them that it was real, and it took a while before they believed me! Thanks Sally for hosting Debby and this valuable post!
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Thanks Diana.. my mother would fall for the charms of young utility salesmen who persuaded her in her 90s to change suppliers.. thankfully in the UK there is a decent cooling off period but they certainly got some colourful phonecalls…xx
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My parents too. They bought a two year contract on a satellite dish a month before moving across the country. I was really angry and let the company know about it.
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Thank goodness you caught that Diana.. some people are unscrupulous ♥
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It’s burns a flame under me when I see seniors getting taken advantage of. ❤
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criminal.. xxx♥
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Oye Diana! They are blessed to have you. It’s so intimimdating for so many seniors. I’m glad my hubby never learned how to work a computer. It saves me a bit of grief LOL 🙂 ❤
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The scammers are shameless. I have to be very vigilant, but I think they’re learning. 🙂
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Don’t let down your guard! 🙂
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I know. They’re very sneaky.
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Hi Sally – Debby’s post really lets us know what can happen and how to be more aware – excellent advice … stay safe – Hilary
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Thanks Hilary.. a lot of great common sense advice and always worth heeding…hugsx
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Thank you Hilary and thanks for hopping over here. Happy to enlighten you ❤
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thanks for providing such useful info; it’s a shame there are people out there trying to scam the most vulnerable…
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Thanks Jim. Sadly, greed and desperation will always rule the rot. 😦
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let’s just hope the good guys are always one step ahead of them…
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I agree Jim and most are not the moneymakers.. they are the evil ones…xx
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a sad state of affairs…
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Hi Debby, This is excellent, comprehensive information, on important topics. I realize I am not internet savvy about who I allow into my digital space. I go by the “hope for the best” rule. I am also hoping my real life instincts help somewhat online.
A great visual “…you are opening the door for them.” Your words “gobbledygook” and “wonky” make me smile. Good descriptions. Re: social media – “do I want them privy to the posts I make on my personal page” resonates with me. I did put together a Page specifically for my webite, although, I did not continue using it. You and I are on the same page about Maya Angelou’s quote, Debbie. Thank you for sharing a great post. Thank you, Sally, for having Debby here. I look forward to Part 2.
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Thanks Erica.. it is a double edged sword.. so much to be gained by our interactions and so much potentially to be lost…hugsx
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Thanks for sharing your comment here too Erica. I replied on my blog, but here is what I said:
Thanks so much for reading Erica, and for hopping over to read the rest. Your comment about ‘hoping for the best’ is a bit scary my friend. Sadly, we must learn how to recognize the most blatant of scams and not keep hoping, because there are just too many of these cyber criminals to keep up with. I’m glad you found my explanation comprehensive. ❤
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Useful advice, Debby. I seem to be getting more e-mails these days, and they are always insistent in trying to send me totally ridiculous amounts of money.
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Unfortunately some who are less canny believe them. Dreadful scheme…xxx
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Oh yes Olga. I’ve been getting plenty of those through text on my phone. Just ‘click on this link’ and collect your money. JUST DON’T! ❤
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Indeed! Going to the source if you have any doubts is the best option. And never click!
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Very helpful, thank you!
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Glad you found helpful.. have a good week.
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Terrific advice. Thanks, Debby!
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Thanks Jennie..xx
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You’re welcome, Sally.
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Most welcome Jennie. ❤
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Excellent advice, Debby. I am quite knowledgeable about email scams because of my job and lifestyle, but I hear of older people being caught out all the time. It is such a shame. Thanks for bringing this into the limelight and giving some good advice to people.
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Thanks Robbie..hugsx
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Thanks Robbie. And that was my intent when I wrote the article, because there are many seniors in our wonderful community. Doing their dilegence and even what too look for can be daunting for many. 🙂 xx
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Thank you for this important information, Debby. I pretty much assume that all emails claiming to be from companies and government agencies are phishing attempts. If the message may be legit, but I’m not sure, I place a phone call using a number that I know is real.
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Good plan Liz.. you can never be too careful. x
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Good you’re being diligent Liz. I hope I’ve helped out on how to scout out fake business emails. Some are so bad you can spot it before opening, and some are good copies, but you can’t change a URL address. Amazon’s emails are always sent from – amazon.com, period. No fluffy stuff after the word com. And good on the phone calls! 🙂
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Yes, you have, thank you!
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Hi Debby and Sally,
The scammers are rife on other social apps and games also. I have a 19 year old special needs daughter, who is desperate to be in a romantic (online) relationship. She has discovered this app called “Mood”. It’s supposed to be where teens can help one another with issues they are going through. Pfft! I have to peek every once in a while to make sure she’s not communicating with scammers. The last time I checked, a scammer had talked her into downloading “Kik”, a texting app that is full of scammers. He was definitely a romance scammer, totally a thing! He was asking her to do all kinds of things. I finally replied to him, from her account, letting him know I was her mom, and to crawl back under the rock from which he came, and to go **** himself, and that if he contacted her again I was going to turn his information into the authorities. These scammers, especially romance scammers, look for vulnerable, lonely people. My daughter kept telling him no, but she also kept communicating with him thinking he was a friend. Be safe everyone!!!
Camilla
xoxo
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Thanks for sharing your story Camilla and it must be very worrying for any parent with teenagers today as there are so many intent on abusing their trust.. a nightmare I am sure and it is great that your daughter has you as overwatch..♥♥
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Thank you, Sally! Lillian doesn’t think so. She was pretty angry with me … Hahaha! Such is the nature of parenting …. xoxo
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Lol One day she will thank you…xx
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Hi Camilla. Thanks so much for stopping by and for sharing your own experience with scammers and children. That is a whole bloody topic on itself – although, in my next issue I will be talking about the scammers and romance online! I often to say to my friends who petrified I’d be in this digital world having children as we have enough trouble detecting some even as adults. I’m so glad you are so diligent with following your daughter’s online movements, it’s sadly become vital for every parent.
Hugs to you my friend. ❤ xx
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Absolutely, Debby. He was asking for money, if she had bank accounts, for MY bank account information, asking her to create a facebook account for him. Before I agreed to let her keep the app months ago, I required her to read articles and websites about scammers, and to watch Youtube videos about it. I’ve since sent her another article about romance scammers. She was pissed at me for “spying” on her and sending him that message. But, I’d rather have her angry at me than have our identities stolen and our finances ruined. It’s maddening and scary. Good luck with the article. Looking forward to it. Hugs back to you! xoxo
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Just one more form of tough love a parent must be diligent about in the digital world their children are exposed to. ❤
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So grateful for sharing your insight and awesome tips, Debby! Thank you. 🙂
Many thanks for sharing, Sally, as always. Cheers to you both. xo
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Thanks Natalie and have a good week..hugsx
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Thanks so much Natalie, for your words and shares. ❤ xx
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Great tips. We must all be vigilant! I had my email hacked last year! What a nightmare! 🤦🏼♀️❤️
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Arg, I remember! 😦 ❤
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I remember that too Colleen.. awful.. hope you are beginning to get settled in to your new home..♥♥
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Thanks, Sally. We’re getting there! I miss my blog family! 🤗❤️
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We are not going anywhere Colleen ♥♥
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Thank you, Sally. I miss you. I need to get your newest book. I’m always over the moon when your inspiration leads you to poetry! ❤
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Thanks Colleen, not as much in this one, but thank you for the prompts for most of them… I have not written much recently but will get back to it soon..♥♥
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Yay! That’s great to hear. We have some new forms coming. ❤️
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Great… look forward to it..hugsx
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Thanks, Sally. It will be fun to try some forms. ❤️
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Excellent advice, Debby. I receive many such e-mails, some from banks I don’t even do business with but nevertheless they will close my account if I don’t act. Close an account that doesn’t exist! Interesting. 🙂
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LOL Carol, those are my favs! LOLOL 🙂 xx
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They are full of tricks and unfortunately some vulnerable elderly get sucked right in.. unforgivable. xxx
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Yes, Sally, that is the sad part of all this.
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Like most people I get my share of scammers, too. Never gave much thought about any action to take, as I generally just go into delete mode. Thanks Debby, for your advice, it’s right on the money. Hugs
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Thanks William.. and for sharing hugsxx
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Thanks William. Happy to enlighten you, and thanks again for sharing. ❤
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Thanks, Sally for hosting and Debby for a great post. Very helpful and they are certainly getting sophisticated, apart from the ‘Hello Dear’. It’s always good to stay on top of what is happening and comforting to have Debby on the case. ❤
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Lol Jane. Have no fear, I am here! ❤ xxx
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❤ Debby ❤
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Thanks Jane and it is comforting to know Debby is on the case.. you don’t want to mess with her if you are a scam artist …♥
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Absolutely not. ❤ Xxx
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True dat! ❤
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Thanks so much for bringing me back for another season at the Smorg Sal. Thrilled to be back. ❤ ❤
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THANK you Debby for the time, effort and expertise you bring with you. You know this is your second home..♥♥
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I do Sal, but thanks for saying it. ❤ xxx
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Yes, I receive at least one or two of these scam emails every day. They are often written in bad English too, or start with ‘Hello Dear’. As soon as I see these I press the delete button.
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Me too Stevie..I have to say the ones offering top quality articles for my blog that start with a spelling mistake are my favourites..xx
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My favourite is ‘Hello Dear’.
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lol.. so intimate.. x
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Absolutely.
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Sounds like the requests I get daily for people wanting to ‘write a post’ on my blog. Most have the same intro: “Hi there. I really love your blog and have so much in common with what you write and would love to write for a post about snowmobiles.” LOL, yes, I write about snowmobiles and advocate for them. LMao. ❤
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Lol so true.. thank goodness they don’t say they are righting about Margaritas…..♥♥
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LOL Sal 🙂 xx
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LOL Stevie! You know it! 🙂 xx
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They have gotten much better with cleaning up the poor English which makes them easier to fall for.
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I can still spot a scammy email though, which I had more difficulty with at the start of my writing career.
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Some yes, but many more are still easy to spot. 🙂
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This is true Dorothy and Google translate has a lot to answer for lol..xx
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Check out this post from Debby Gies via Sally Cronin’s blog with great information on vetting on the Internet, Email and Social Media for Scammers and Trolls
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Thanks very much Don..x
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You’re welcome.
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Thanks for spreading the word Don. 🙂
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You’re welcome
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Fantastic information and advice. I’m definitely going to share this one. Thanks for posting it.
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Great thanks Don.. none of us escape these parasites..xx
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Thanks so much Don. 🙂
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My pleasure
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Thank you for the very interesting and useful posting, Debby! One can not get informed enough. Virtual burglars are all around, and they are internationally organized. Have a beautiful week! Michael
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Thanks Michael.. and you are so right Internationally organized..hugs
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:-)) You too, Sally! Enjoy your Monday afternoon. Do you know? Germany has found another mutant of the C-19, in Garmisch-Partenkirchen (Bavaria). Now Bavaria has its very own virus, beside the UK and South Africa. Nobody is wondering about. I only hope this mutation is not as intelligent like Ludwig II. LOl
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That is not good Michael.. it seems to be mutating wherever it goes to the local format… trying to avoid both detection and vaccines.. xx
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True dat Michael. No doubts these burglars are internationally organized! It’s really so sad when you think about fellow man taking advantage of fellow man. But sadly seems to be the style of the world of greed we live in. 😦 Happy week to you too. 🙂
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Thank you very much, Debby!
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What incredibly good advice this is, Debby – and thank you so much for sharing it. I agree, we cannot do enough due diligence. I’m always astounded by the number and persistence of scammers out there. Toni
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Thanks Toni, their ingenuity knows no bounds.. great to have Debby on their case…hugsx
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Hi Toni. Thanks. No, we can never let down our guards because the amount of people that spend their time creating evil is astounding. 😦 ❤
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In general, I’m generally pretty suspicious about stuff. Not in the sense of conspiracy theories, but scammers are everywhere. I must get at least five of those bogus emails a day, Debby. Like you, I’ve learned to discern what’s real from fake. Caller ID even identifies many phone calls as spam.
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Thanks for adding your thoughts Pete. Our landline only gets spam calls these days and I usually answer it with ‘You have reached the Fraud Line and your call is being traced’ It was a call from a friend one day and she nearly fell off her chair…xx
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LOL Sal, my landline too, go figure. But I must admit, you are a lot less harsh than I when I answer that phone LOL 🙂 ❤
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Lol.. one scared friend is enough ♥♥
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Brilliant response, Sally. ❤
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It seems to result is phones being put down quite quickly Jane lol.. ♥
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It’s clever and funny, Sally. ❤ Xxx
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We finally got rid of our landland for that very reason. Why pay good money for scammers to harass us?
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We hope to have faster broadband soon, it is wired to our nearest pole so we will be changing provider and getting rid of soon.. we both have mobiles anyway..xx
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Hi Pete. Good to hear you’re on top of things. I like the idea of caller ID warning for those who may not be that tech savvy. 🙂
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