Smorgasbord Posts from Your Archives – #Potluck – Shelter Dogs and Children Helping Each Other (Guest Post by Lainee Cole) HL Carpenter


Welcome to the series  Posts from Your Archives, where bloggers put their trust in me. In this series, I dive into a blogger’s archives and select four posts to share here to my audience.

If you would like to know how it works here is the original post: https://smorgasbordinvitation.wordpress.com/2019/04/28/smorgasbord-posts-from-your-archives-newseries-pot-luck-and-do-you-trust-me/

Delighted to welcome mother and daughter writing team HL Carpenter with the first of their four posts I have selected from their two blogs. The first of the posts is from Helen and Lorri’s archives from Top Drawer Ink Corp, with a guest post from Lainee Cole about rescue dogs and children…It looks like a great place to guest post and promote your work…

Shelter Dogs and Children Helping Each Other (Guest Post by Lainee Cole)

Image source: HiDee Ekstrom

My dad loved dogs. I don’t think we were ever without at least one while growing up. My favorite was a collie pup named Magoo. I still smile when I picture him watching Saturday morning cartoons with us, cocking his head and whining at the TV when Mr. Magoo would say, “Oh Magoo, you’ve done it again!”

Dogs were such a huge part of our lives, so it seemed only natural to want the characters in my books to have dogs, too. Mistletoe came to life for me after I read several news articles about school children reading to shelter dogs. I never had the opportunity to participate in such a program, but it’s definitely something I would have done had I been given the chance.

Reading aloud to adults can be intimidating. Dogs don’t judge young readers, so reading aloud to them allows children to practice without interruption or criticism. Studies show these students have lower absentee rates and complete homework assignments more often. That’s easy to believe! What’s more relaxing than curling up with a good book and a warm body at your side?

Shelters can be noisy, scary places. Many dogs are fearful, keeping to the back of their kennels. They may pant or shake, act aggressive, or bark excessively when visitors come to the shelter—all signs of stress. Children in reading programs witness their fears. The programs teach children how to read a dog’s body language, to sit sideways and talk in quiet voices, and to reinforce positive behavior by rewarding those who show interest with doggie treats.

Some programs ask participants to perform a visualization exercise such as this: Close your eyes and pretend you’re one of the shelter dogs. Use your senses. What do you see? What do you hear? What do you smell? How do you feel? Organizers hope that if children can view things from a shelter dog’s perspective, maybe they can apply their experiences and their empathy to other animals they meet.

These special programs multi-task with the best of us, helping children and dogs alike. Reading is a calm activity that allows children to help prepare shelter animals for their forever homes by providing companionship, socialization, and non-threatening human interactions. This increases shelter animals’ chances of being adopted. In return, children improve their own literacy without being judged on their abilities.

In The Mistletoe Effect, I flipped this idea and brought shelter dogs to the children. Five shelter dogs go to school as part of a program called Assisted Reading with Friends (ARF). Mistletoe the Border Collie becomes the star of the story when she seeks out a troubled young second-grader named Holly. Holly’s mother has recently left her with a father she doesn’t know; a father who didn’t even know she existed. As Holly and her father struggle to get acquainted, Mistletoe and Holly’s teacher help to make the transition easier. A perfect example of how shelter dogs and children can help each other!

Here’s a peek at Lainee’s romance story, which is one of the two stories included in the Christmas Anthology, Captured by Christmas.

Blurb

Christmas is second-grade teacher Tess McCall’s least favorite holiday, but she’s doing her best not to let it show. Learning he’s a father to seven-year-old Holly makes Alex Randle anxious about the upcoming holidays. When Tess’s class starts reading to shelter dogs, Holly and the antics of shelter dog Mistletoe lead them all to rediscover the magic of Christmas.

Excerpt

“Okay class. Everyone have a seat on the floor,” she called. The kids responded quickly, as usual. They were a really good group of kids. “Mrs. Shull is going to tell us about her dogs, and then you’ll all get a chance to spend some time with them.”

While the kids were settling down, Tess took a position across from the door. From there she would be able to see Mr. Randle if he returned. The idea of a stranger observing her class was not acceptable. What if he wasn’t who he claimed to be? She straightened her shoulders. One thing was for sure. He’d have to go through her to get to the children.

The shelter volunteers lined up at the front of the room with the dogs beside them. Connie wasted no time engaging the students.

“Hello class.”

“Hello Mrs. Shull,” they greeted her, just as they had been taught.

“I work part time at the Centerville Animal Shelter and I brought some friends with me today. They are part of ARF.”

Some of the kids giggled. Tess didn’t blame them. ARF was kind of a funny name. Connie barely held back a smile.

“ARF means Assisted Reading with Friends. You all have friends in class, right?”

“Arf, Arf, Arf!” Billy Owens barked. The other students laughed. He was the class clown.

“I’ll take that as a yes,” Connie said, grinning. “Our dogs get lonely at the shelter. They each have their own cage, but they don’t get to run around and play like you do on the playground. They want lots of love and attention, and they love to make new friends, so let me introduce them to you.”

Connie gave the border collie beside her a command and then moved to the opposite end of the line. The dog stayed put. She had a beautiful black and white coat, with warm brown eyes begging for attention. Tess itched to call her over and pet her, but that would go against Connie’s command. Her assistant wouldn’t appreciate that. She also didn’t want to set a bad example for her students. She’d just have to wait.

“This is Rascal,” Connie said, petting a large brown and black dog. “He’s four years old and he’s a Labrador mix. He’s very friendly. Do I have any volunteers who would like to read to him?”

Tess smiled as small hands shot into the air, waving excitedly. Connie picked three and asked them to join Rascal’s handler. In her no-nonsense manner, she introduced a terrier mix named Sparky, a springer spaniel named Bentley, and a German shepherd named Max. Each time, different hands shot into the air. She divided the students into groups until she had only four children and the border collie left.

“This last pretty lady is Mistletoe. She’s a three-year-old border collie.”

“Why do you call her Mistletoe?” Dylan Miller asked. Her students were always curious, wanting to learn more. Tess loved being able to stimulate their minds.

“She was found under a tree covered in mistletoe. It was also close to Christmas, so we thought Mistletoe was a good name for her,” Connie told the students. “Those of you left get to read to her, so come on up. If you aren’t with the dog you wanted to read to today, don’t worry. Next time, we’ll mix you up so everyone gets a chance to read with every dog.”

Tess smiled as a chorus of excited voices responded. The volunteers spread out across the room with their dogs and their group of students. In a matter of minutes, the well-oiled ARF machine started working its magic.

This was why she’d wanted to bring the ARF program into her classroom. Even if it was almost Christmas. It would be great for the students. Some of them were already good readers. Tess hoped those who weren’t would find the dogs’ presence calming, so they might relax and not stumble over their words.

She glanced at the door, thankful to see the window clear of faces. She wandered around the classroom, observing the interactions. The dogs were very well-behaved. Some of the children held back, but Connie and her volunteers didn’t push them. One child in each group was reading aloud, while most of the others were petting the dogs. It was surprisingly quiet and calm for a change.

Suddenly Mistletoe started to whine. Connie immediately moved to that group and bent down to pet the dog. “What’s wrong, Mistletoe?”

The dog whined again and then jumped up and ran to the reading corner. Tess’s heart plummeted when she saw Holly sitting alone. How had she missed her student escaping back into the corner? No, she couldn’t watch all of them at once, but based on Holly’s earlier actions she should have been paying more attention to the girl.

Mistletoe’s ears perked forward as she crouched and slowly approached Holly, nudging her arm. Holly looked at the dog. She was so sad Tess just wanted to hug her. The dog moved around and nudged her other arm. Holly petted her then, and Mistletoe lay down, resting her head in Holly’s lap. A small smile hovered on Holly’s lips, the first real smile Tess had seen all day.

“Come, Mistletoe,” Connie called out. Mistletoe jumped up, nudged Holly’s arm and trotted a few steps away. She stopped and turned back to Holly, whining. Her ears perked and dropped as she looked back to Connie, who was standing near her group, then back to Holly, clearly torn.

“Holly, I think Mistletoe would like you to join her group. Would you come sit with us?”

Book Buy Link: Amazon

About Lainee Cole

Lainee Cole is a Midwestern girl who writes in the company of a husband always trying to talk to her. An avid reader, she decided at a young age she wanted to be a writer in order to give other readers the same freedom she discovered in books. Writing romance challenges her; she loves developing characters and figuring out what makes them tick. Her characters often take on a life of their own, surprising and annoying her. But writing fictional characters also gives her hope and inspires her to follow her dreams. Lainee’s goal is for her stories to make readers laugh and cry, give them hope, and encourage them to believe in the power of love. When she’s not writing or reading, Lainee enjoys spending time with family and friends; hiking, camping, and traveling with her husband; and consuming daily doses of chocolate.

Author Links

Facebook author page | Twitter | Facebook author profile | Goodreads | Amazon Author Page

As you can see this is a great place to showcase your books and I hope you will contact Helen and Lorri about guest posting and sharing your work..

About HL Carpenter (Helen and Lorri)

HL Carpenter is a mother/daughter duo who writes family-friendly fiction from their studios in Carpenter Country, a magical place that, like their stories, is unreal but not untrue. When they’re not writing, the Carpenters enjoy exploring the Land of What-If and practicing the fine art of Curiosity Their website Top Drawer Ink Corp  also offers opportunities for promotion for other authors and their books.

A selection of books for adults, YA and children by HL Carpenter

One of the reviews for Murder by the Books

Peggy M McAloon  5.0 out of 5 stars Is the Answer in the Missing Journals & Accounting Records?

The mother-daughter duo known as HL Carpenter created a character in Fae Childers who can go the distance. Murder by the Books is well-paced and will hold your interest to the end.

I have a long-standing background in researching financial scams and con-artists, so the topic was a perfect one to entertain me on a cold and dreary Saturday.

Fae Childers is so horrified by the suggestion that she has embezzled from the accounting firm she leaves without defending her decades-long career with the firm.

The fact that her boyfriend has sided with the owners causes her to stay in seclusion in her apartment in Tampa. Wallowing in self-pity, she’s intrigued when a letter arrives informing her of an inheritance from a grandmother she had no idea existed.

The lawyer she encounters in Seafoam appears to be thoughtful, compassionate and handsome. Why is Fae drawn in so by his passionate green eyes? Could Ret Karaffa be at the center of the murders and break-ins that suddenly seem to happen with an unnerving regularity around all the people her grandmother came in contact with while living along the coast in Seafoam?

You’ll learn to love to hate the annoying local reporter, Pat Jablonski. Will she show up dead in the surf too?

The real mystery is whether or not the killer believes that Fae has inherited her grandmother’s abilities to see things most of us will never experience. Will he or she recognize the piercing headaches as the same ones Fae’s grandmother had before she solved the mysterious puzzles the inhabitants of Seafoam had with unnerving regularity?

The missing journals and balance sheets hold the answers, but will Fae discover them in time to save herself and protect the vast inheritance everyone is focused on? What of the handsome Ret? Will he provide the love connection she’s been looking for her whole life?

This book has a clever plot, interesting characters, and enough last-minute revelations to keep you interested from beginning to end. It was a fast read filled with richly defined backdrops. I thought I’d figured it out three times before I finished it. You’ll need to pick up a copy to find out if Fae has fortune-telling instincts like her grandmother.

Read the reviews and buy the books: https://www.amazon.com/default/e/B007SHS9LA/

And on Amazon UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/HL-Carpenter/e/B007SHS9LA/

You will find a lot more reviews on Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5820921.H_L_Carpenter

Connect to HL Carpenter

Website and blog: https://www.hlcarpenter.com/
Author Guest posts: https://www.topdrawerinkcorp.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/hl_carpenter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hlcarpenter/
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/hlcarpenter/

Thank you for dropping in today and I hope you will head over to both of Helen and Lorri’s blogs to explore them further and to take advantage of their kind offer to promote your work.. thanks Sally.

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Smorgasbord Posts from Your Archives – #PotLuck – Are We Lost in #Social Oblivion? by D.G. Kaye


Welcome to the series of Posts from Your Archives, where bloggers put their trust in me. In this series, I dive into a blogger’s archives and select four posts to share here to my audience.

If you would like to know how it works here is the original post: https://smorgasbordinvitation.wordpress.com/2019/04/28/smorgasbord-posts-from-your-archives-newseries-pot-luck-and-do-you-trust-me/

Here is the fourth of the posts I have selected from the archives of D.G. Kaye, Debby Gies who is a regular contributor to the blog with her travel column and also as a guest comedian…Debby has some terrific posts on blogging and social media… and here is one that I think we can all relate to.

Are We Lost in #Social Oblivion? by D.G. Kaye

Social media sharing

Today I’m going to share my thoughts here on the madness of social media, and book promoting, and our constant battle to keep up with everything social media to stay afloat with our presence.

I’m speaking for myself, but I know my thoughts are shared by many a writer. As writers, we all develop our routines, and although every one of us has our own methods of tackling our ‘to do’ lists, if we’re writing books, much of what we do will involve ways to market our books using social media.

With the explosion of new authors and books in the past few years, there are waves of cries to ‘buy my book’ in order to be heard through a sea of social media blasts. I sometimes feel as though I’m drowning in that sea. But I don’t wish to become one of the ‘hard sell’ authors, and I don’t even spend nearly enough time or dollars doing the amount of marketing I’m urged to do through all the social outlets I follow and with all the subscriptions I read from newsletters telling me about another method to push my books.

Sure I read many articles to stay abreast. I’ll bookmark pertinent information and save it to Evernote for the time I’m ready to tackle it. But with all I read, I still can’t bring myself to become an aggressive marketer. I have my daily routine planned the night before with my list of things to accomplish, and that keeps my plate full as it is. As much as I want to try a million new ideas out, there are only so many hours in a day. So I prioritize with my book writing days and my blog post days. I’ve learned what social media sites I gravitate to most. I’ve built friendships and followers who I can chat with, share with, or just have a simple ‘thank you’ for sharing rapport with for dedicated sharers. I read many blogs, and like and comment where I feel like contributing, and if I enjoyed a post, I’ll share it to my social sites.

This routine I have was never a strategy to gain followers, but somehow it had led me to gathering readers and making some wonderful friends along the way. This is who I am, and I don’t wish to conform to being one of those hounds shouting hashtags to ‘buy my book’.

And what may have prompted me to write this you may be thinking?

I came across an article yesterday while reading my morning newsletter subscriptions. This is part of my morning routine with coffee in hand, my morning newspaper. I check my personal emails first thing in the morning, and catch up on what’s going on with the writing and publishing world with my Indie newsletters. This is usually when I send out my Twitter tweets while I’m reading articles. Some also get sent to Google and Linkedin and my Facebook author page. But I check Twitter once a day only, every morning, because I have a lot of writers that follow me, and I know some will find these posts informative because I’m sure that’s why they followed me in the first place. I know my posts are interesting to some because I’ve gained quite a few followers in the past few years, and I can honestly say I never search for people to follow, they find me, and I decide if I will follow back based on the criteria I have for following back.

My usual stipulations for NOT following back are: They use an egg as a replacement for a photo, no bio or website, hard sellers, or promisers to get you hundreds of followers for a price, or of course pornographic posts. I don’t hesitate to follow someone just because they may have few followers. I’m not looking for popularity, but sincerity and something informative offered. I always follow back authors because I believe if they took the time to follow my posts they’re eager to learn, especially if they’re new and just starting their platforms. This is just the way I roll in life with the people I congregate with and develop friendships with. If they’re sincere, forthgiving, and informative, I’m in.

Now, the reason I’m sharing this here today goes back to 2 relevant posts I came across from 2 articles I read in parts from a writer, Delilah Dawson from Whimsydark. She wrote about herself not being one of ‘those authors’ who are constantly pushing their books at every opportunity. She makes a pertinent point in her post that if people like you, and like what you have to say they may just follow you and buy your books because of those qualities, and eventually, hopes that word of mouth become our best marketing tool. Her point is to keep writing and doing what works and states that current trends don’t necessarily dictate what works for everyone.

The articles resonated with me because that’s what I do. I do my thing, and socialize where I enjoy being best, not trying to dance at every wedding (every social site) because there just isn’t enough time to do everything. Below I will give you a sampling of the two posts with the link to continue reading. I think you will find them good reads.

https://www.whimsydark.com/blog/2015/4/13/please-shut-up-why-self-promotion-as-an-author-doesnt-work

Spend your energy and time being kind to your colleagues, thanking your publishing team, and making new friends with no expectation that you will eventually use them to claw your way to the top. Before you Friend another writer on Facebook, make sure it’s because you legitimately want to know them better and be part of their life and not because you’re planning on sending them an Event invitation or a link to your book…Continue reading

And here is her follow up article: http://www.whimsydark.com/blog/2015/4/14/wait-keep-talking-author-self-promo-that-actually-works

“Adding value means passing on truly helpful links, retweeting job listings or calls for submissions, wishing someone a happy launch day, recommending books you’ve enjoyed, discussing the news of the day in a respectful and thoughtful manner, talking about an upcoming event, or generally saying things that make someone’s day just a little brighter. Over time, people will begin to trust you as you repeatedly add value to their life..Continue reading

I hope you enjoy these posts and take something from them as I did. They confirmed to me that I’m doing just fine the way I’m doing. And please feel free to leave me your comments because I’d like to know where you guys stand on the marketing front.

©D.G. Kaye 2016

Debby writes a monthly travel column here on Smorgasbord and you can find all her articles: https://smorgasbordinvitation.wordpress.com/the-travel-column-with-d-g-kaye/

About D.G. Kaye

Debby Gies is a Canadian nonfiction/memoir author who writes under the pen name of D.G. Kaye. She was born, raised, and resides in Toronto, Canada. Kaye writes about her life experiences, matters of the heart and women’s issues.

D.G. writes to inspire others. Her writing encompasses stories taken from events she encountered in her own life, and she shares the lessons taken from them. Her sunny outlook on life developed from learning to overcome challenges in her life, and finding the upside from those situations, while practicing gratitude for all the positives.

When Kaye isn’t writing intimate memoirs, she brings her natural sense of humor into her other works. She loves to laugh and self- medicate with a daily dose of humor.
I love to tell stories that have lessons in them, and hope to empower others by sharing my own experiences. I write raw and honest about my own experiences, hoping through my writing, that others can relate and find that there is always a choice to move from a negative space, and look for the positive.

Quotes:
“Live Laugh Love . . . And Don’t Forget to Breathe!”

                 “For every kindness, there should be kindness in return. Wouldn’t that just make the world right?”

When I’m not writing, I’m reading or quite possibly looking after some mundane thing in life. It’s also possible I may be on a secret getaway trip, as that is my passion—traveling.

Books by D.G. Kaye

One of the reviews for Twenty Years After “I do” on Goodreads.

Aug 27, 2018 Janice Spina rated it it was amazing
A Loving Reflection of Twenty Years of Marriage!

I thoroughly enjoyed this book, Twenty Years: After “I Do”. It was a heartfelt journey through the author’s life with her devoted and loving husband who is much older than she. I laughed along with her and shed tears of sorrow when she did.

D.G. Kaye expressed herself in endearing terms when she spoke of her husband and their wonderful life together. She wrote with deep expressions of angst over serious health issues they both experienced and then joy over happy times with much shared laughter.

Marriage is a difficult union as anyone who has been married knows. This book takes the reader down this path to discover the true meaning of soul mates and undying love from one another. D.G. shares the beauty of each day that she and her husband, Gordon, have had together and continue to have even in adversity. She displays a remarkable wit in tough times and a brilliant resilience to go on no matter what she must face.

This book is a must read for all who have been married whether for a short time or a longer time. All couples face similar situations and must make tough decisions in their lives together. The author has shown how she has had to deal with serious health issues and come out stronger and more persistent to make the best of every day she and her husband have left together. For isn’t that part of our marriage vows – to love each other in sickness and health till death do us part?

Read all the reviews and buy the books: http://www.amazon.com/author/dgkaye7

and Amazon UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/D.G.-Kaye/e/B00HE028FO

More reviews and follow Debby on Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/dgkaye

Connect to Debby Gies

Blog: http://www.dgkayewriter.com
About me: http://www.wiseintro.co/dgkaye7
MeWe: mewe.com/i/debbygies
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/@pokercubster (yes there’s a story)
Linkedin: http://www.linkedin.com/in/dgkaye7
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/dgkaye
Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dgkaye
Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/dgkaye7

My thanks to Debby for allowing me to share her archived posts and I hope you will head over to her blog and delve into them even more.. thanks Sally.