In this series you are invited to share an excerpt of 500 words from any of your published books .
This feature is for any author who has been promoted on Smorgasbord previously.
Please read full details of how to participate at the end of the post.
The aim of the series
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- To showcase your book and sell some more copies.
- Gain more reviews for the book.
- Promote a selection of your other books that are available
Today I am featuring an excerpt from Fifteen First Things: Beginnings: A Collection of Indelible Firsts by author and long-term contributor to Smorgasbord D.G. Kaye….Debby Gies.
About the memoir
This book is a collection of stories about some of Kaye’s first-time experiences with life’s most natural events. Told through the intimate conversational writing we’ve come to know from this author, poignant personal steppingstones to learning moments are revealed. She encompasses the heart of each matter with sincerity and sprinkled inflections of humor.
From first kiss to first car to walking in the desert with four-inch heels, Kaye’s short coming-of-age stories take us through her awakenings and important moments of growth, often without warning. Some good and some not, life lessons are learned through trial and error, winging it and navigating by the seat of her pants.
An excerpt from Fifteen First Times
These short stories are a reminiscing back to some of the firsts in my life. They are moments that left an imprint and propelled me forward through life. Nothing that happens to us is insignificant – everything that happens is for a reason or for teaching us something to take forward with us. ~ D.G. Kaye
First Broken Heart
Barry lived across the street from us when we lived in our big white house. The newly developed neighborhood had only two houses built at first—ours and Barry’s. Playing outside was a favorite pastime. Riding bikes and outdoor games kept us kids busy after school till the first streetlight shone its beams into the darkness, like a school bell alerting playtime was over and we must go inside.
Barry’s family moved in halfway through the school year, so he would finish the year at his old school before joining my junior high after the summer. I was twelve, Barry was eleven. We became good friends, and our friendship quickly blossomed into romance.
Barry’s kisses were not my first kisses, but Barry was my first love. We spent most of our time together after school and on weekends, going for walks, holding hands, and kissing.
Many evenings we’d sit outside together on a street curb and look at the stars, sharing dreams and aspirations, planning our future together at the ripe old ages of twelve and eleven, and talking about eloping. What the heck did we even know about eloping? We’d both come from broken homes, and the convenience of boy meets girl living on the same street was probably half our attraction to each other.
But we were madly in love. His term of endearment for me was Debby Delish. My gawd, I still have the love letters he sent me from camp that summer . . . when he left me behind. Literally.
During June and July, we did many things together, from outside activities to watching movies and stealing intimate time together when our parents weren’t around. Of course, there were limits. Not to say Barry didn’t try breaking limits, but the fear of my mother ever finding out I even kissed a boy was strong enough to keep my hormones in check.
We had what some would call a fantasy puppy-love relationship. We had much in common—broken homes, siding with our fathers, and mothers who were barely ever at home. Who knows if these common threads contributed to our attraction. Whatever the reasons, our relationship filled a void for one another.
©DGKaye2023
One of the reviews for the book
I’ve always enjoyed D.G. Kaye’s conversational writing style. This book is no exception to her honest and entertaining narrative. She has compiled a collection of ‘firsts’ from her teen years relatable to all readers. I felt so at ease that I read this collection in one sitting, feeling like we were comfortably chatting over a glass of wine. These memories invited me to stroll down memory lane, recalling crazy crash diets, first kiss, first boyfriend, and first broken heart that felt like it would never mend. Her amusing fascination with shoes made me chuckle; how she managed those heels is beyond me. I laughed out loud when I read about the first hair dye episode. Her first car was a Ford Mustang given by her wonderful father, and while my first car wasn’t, her story evoked memories of when I bought a blue Mustang a few years later with equal excitement.
Kaye’s anecdotes are witty, engaging, and poignant. She has no trouble sharing her vulnerability. Low self-esteem plagued her in those years, but with her outgoing personality and wild sense of fashion, she rose above it, growing into the confident woman she is today. Being a teenager isn’t easy. Those years are about finding ourselves, figuring out who we are, and Kaye succeeded with spirit!
Kaye ends the collection with an emotive tribute to her late husband, her only true love. My heart still aches for her loss. She writes in her dedication, “To those who’ve been there, done that, and learned from. And for those who’ve yet to venture out and overcome.” She couldn’t have expressed the purpose of this delightful book any better. Highly recommended for anyone who enjoys a heartwarming memoir and a stroll down memory lane.
Read the reviews and pick up a copy at your local Amazon: Fifteen First Times Universal Link
Books by D.G. Kaye
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About D.G. Kaye
D.G. Kaye is a nonfiction memoir writer who writes about life, matters of the heart and women’s issues. Her intent is to inspire others by sharing stories about events she encountered, and the lessons that came along with them. She loves to laugh and self-medicate with a daily dose of humor. When she’s not writing intimate memoirs, you’ll find her writing with humor in some of her other works and blog posts.
Kaye’s childhood kept her observant about her surroundings. Growing up in a tumultuous family life kept her on guard about the on-and-off-going status of her parents’ relationship. She began writing notes, and journaled about the dysfunction she grew up in. By age seven she was certain she was going to grow up to become a reporter. But life has a funny way of taking detours. Instead, she moved away from home at eighteen with a few meager belongings and a curiosity for life, finished university and changed careers a few times along the way, always striving to work her way up to managerial positions. Her drive to succeed at anything she put her mind to led to having a very colorful and eventful life.
Ever the optimist, D.G. conquered quite a few battles in life; health and otherwise, and her refusal to accept the word ‘No’, or to use the words ‘I can’t’, keeps her on a positive path in life. She hopes to inspire others with her love of telling stories with lessons to empower others, by sharing her own experiences.
In 2021, she lost the love of her life. “When the grief overcame me, I found my only way to move forward was through my writing (that book currently in the works) and communing with others who understand this journey. Through this and my own search for seeking comfort, I began podcasting – Grief, The Real Talk. This is a podcast for those of us who’ve worn the shoes, and for all those who wish to understand the journey of a griever.
What will be in the post and how to get in touch
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- I will top and tail the post in the usual way with your other books and links, bio, photo and social media.
- I will also select a review from Amazon or Goodreads that I feel has the best selling pitch for the book.
- Please share a book that has reviews to select from.
- This series is open to all authors who have previously been featured in the promotions on Smorgasbord.
- I do have a younger readership for the book posts so please consider that when selecting your excerpt.
- I suggest an excerpt of 500 words that you feel would encourage a reader to buy the book, or a poem that you feel best reflects the theme of your collection.
- No need to send the cover as I will have that or will access from Amazon.
- Please send your excerpt to sally.cronin@moyhill.com
- I only ask that authors share the link to their social media and respond to each comment individually as a matter of courtesy.
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Thank you for dropping in today and I hope you will be leaving with some books.. Sally.
A great excerpt and review of Debbie’s book, Sally. Oh, the memories of those first boy-friends…when my blushes drove me mad!! Thank you both. xx
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Thanks Joy and I think we all have those lol.. Hope you are both well ♥
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This is a most fabulous idea, Sally!
You are the bees knees.
This seems like the first post in this series, and how wonderful to start with “Fifteen First Times”.
I’m a huge fan of Debby and her writing. Although, other than articles on her blog, I have only read one book, this one.
There will be more.
Her podcasts on grief are terrific.
Be well! x
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Thanks Resa.. not quite the first post in the series but any post about Debby has something unique in it that makes it seem like the first time.. Glad you enjoy her podcasts too..hugsx
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Debby is one of a kind! Hugsx
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A great introduction to anyone who hasn’t read your books yet, Deb, and a super review to back up a delightful excerpt.
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Thanks very much Debby ♥
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Hi Deb. Thanks so much for stopping by here and leaving your good cheer. Hugs 🙂 xo
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What a lovely review by Lauren. I could live off of that for a few weeks.
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I thought so too Jacqui.. xx
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Thanks so much Jacqui. Right? It certainly made my day. ❤
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Thanks for boosting the post Debby.. fab excerpt ♥
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Thanks again Sal – for everything. ❤ ❤
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A good choice by Debby and an excellent promotional reminder, Sally!
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Thanks veyr much John.. x
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Thanks very much John. 🙂 x
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Ah…first loves. A fun excerpt. Congrats on the new book, Debby! 💖 Looking forward to reading this one. It seems conversational, like Have Bags, Will Travel, which I enjoyed very much. Great review from Lauren. Thanks for sharing, Sally.
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Thanks very much Sarah and it is very conversational and relatable.. I am sure you will enjoy.. hugsx
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Hi Sarah, thanks so much for stopping by and leaving your kind words. I do hope you enjoy my book when you get there. Hugs xx
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I’m sure I will. 💖
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I loved this book. The stories are so relatable. I often found myself nodding as I read it.
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Thanks Darlene and I agree quite a bit of that this end too.. ♥
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Hi Darlene. Thanks so much. I am so glad you enjoyed. ❤
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I really enjoyed the excerpt! Thanks, Debby and Sally.
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Thank you Jennie ❤
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Thanks Jennie ♥
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What a lovely memory Debby gives us. I think we can all relate in some way. Thank you, Debby and Sally for sharing.
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Thanks very much Viv.. ♥
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Thank you Viv. I’m so glad when readers find my stories relatable. ❤
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I loved Debby’s story too, it reminded me of all my first times, and a few I had forgotten!
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Thanks Jaye and glad it took you down memory lane.. ♥
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It really did. I remembered so many things…
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Thanks so much for that Jaye. I love it when my stories conjure up personal experiences for the reader. What better could I ask for? ❤
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As I read it, I was fifty years younger again, and that was wonderful!
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That is high praise!!! Thank you. ❤
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Congratulations on the new book, Debby. It sounds delightful. Love the excerpt.
By the way, I must tell you, I’ve never walked anywhere in four-inch heels. That’s impressive. I don’t think I’ve ever even slipped on a pair!
You’re a wonderful writer. I wish you all the luck with this one! 🙂
Lisette x
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Thanks very much Lisette.. and with you on the heels..xx
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Lol Sal. 🙂 xx
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HI Lisette. Thank you so much for your lovely comment. 🙂 And lol about the heels. Honestly, until my early 50s I still wore them. They were like appendages, lol. These days, I live in runners, lol. And if I have anywhere special to go, 2 1/2 to 3″ heels max. Old habits don’t die. Lol 🙂 ❤
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I also love Debby’s writing style. Every line from her is pure life coaching, even though it isn’t always the primary goal of the writing.This excerpt shows how she evaluates events positively and predictively for future life. hugsx Michael
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Very true Michael and I totally agree with you about Debby’s writing.. hugsx
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And, thank you too Sal. ❤ ❤
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Michael, thank you so much for your lovely comment about my writing. That is high praise, and you just made my day! Thank you. ❤ xx
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Great excerpt and read! I hope it gets lots of new readers xo
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Thanks very much Denise..hugs
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Thank you so much Denise. Hugs ❤
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Aww, I remember my first puppy love. Thank you for sharing.
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Thanks Mary Anne.. they do tend to be memorable..xx
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A touching excerpt. Lauren Scott’s wonderful review. I read Debby’s I Forgive You and Words We Carry and remember of what a deep impact they made on me. I want to resurrect that feeling and definitely will read her last one. Thank you for sharing, Sally.
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Thanks very much Marina for adding your boost for those books and I am sure you will feel the same about this one. ♥
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Hi Marina. Thanks so much for your kind words. And thank you for reading and enjoying my books. ❤
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Ah, yes. Those first romances. I think the vast majority of us can relate to Debby’s experience or close to it. A great glimpse into Debby’s book, Sally. This was a super entertaining read. Congrats, Debby.
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Thanks Diana.. I agree very relateable.. ♥
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Thank you so much Diana ❤
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I loved reading Debby’s book. It sparked so many fond memories. It’s definitely a book to revisit when you’re feeling nostalgic. Thanks for sharing, Sally!❤️
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Thanks again Jill for reading and for sharing your lovely thoughts about my book. Hugs ❤
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Wonderful thanks Jill.. with you all the way ♥
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I loved everything about this book from the concept to the brutally honest, and often funny, stories. Great review as well! ❤
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I agree Alex and thanks for your boost for Debby ♥♥
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HI Trish. Thank you so much for your kind praise. Brutal honesty is why I write. Hugs xox
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It’s why the content always rings true. ❤
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Thank you for saying so Trish ❤
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A wonderful excerpt and review, Debby. I loved all these stories. Toni x
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Thanks Toni…♥
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Thanks again Toni. I appreciate you saying so. Hugs xx
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Why’s lovely gentle read this excerpt was.
Young and innocent love for sure.
What a great review too.
A book of firsts certainly sounds compelling.
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Thanks Sue and it is a lovely nostalgic book that is very relatable to so many of us.. ♥
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Thank you kindly Sue. ❤
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It is lovely to see Debby’s newest book here. And the review is perfect as well. Thanks, Sally, for sharing the excerpt, congratulations to Debby, and I hope many more readers discover her books.
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Thanks very much Olga.. delighted to share ♥
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Hi Olga. Thank you so much for your always kind words. Hugs ❤
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Hi Sally, I really enjoyed this book of Debby’s. I’ll send you and extract. Life is going to fast right now 🤪
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Thanks for adding your recommendation and look forward to receiving your excerpt when you have time..♥♥
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Thank you again Robbie for reading and sharing your feelings. ❤
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It’s lovely to see Debby and her book featured today, Sally! I remember reading her “First Broken Heart.” Oh, those puppy-love moments! Se reminds many of us.
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Thanks very much Miriam ♥
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Youre welcome, Sally. ❤
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Thanks so much Miriam. Ah yes, young love. Sometimes naivety is bliss. Hugs xx
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I zipped through this book because it was so relatable. I loved the concept of memorable firsts. Who doesn’t remember their first car, job, date, kiss, etc.? Debby has lived a most interesting life. Great job on the review, Sally.
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Thanks Pete and I know exactly what you mean.. it is a very relatable book and glad you enjoyed too..hugs
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Thanks so much for sharing you enjoyed my book Pete. I am always a little extra tickled when a male reads my books. 🙂 x
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Ah, puppy love. I remember it well.
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So intense… xxx
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Innocent hearts, lol. 🙂
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Hi Sal. What a lovely surprise to find my excerpt here. As usual, I forgot the date you’d given me. My bad. So thank you again for this lovely feature Sal. Hugs xox
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My pleasure Debby and delighted to start the week with your excerpt.. ♥♥
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I am truly honored. Sal. Hugs ❤ xx
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How fantastic to see Debby’s book featured today. I enjoyed this book. It felt like sitting down for coffee and chatting. Congrats to Debby! Thanks, Sally!
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Hi Jan. Thanks so much for your lovely words about my book. I love when readers feel as though I’m chatting with them directly. Best compliment I can ask for. Thank you. ❤
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Wonderful thanks Jan.. I feel the same about the book ♥
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